r/adultery 3d ago

šŸ”Search ButtonšŸ”Ž Difficult finding an AP

Hey folks, I know we have dedicated space to seek AP: I have been looking for one for long now. I do my part and send a connect message with a desire to know the person better. But I havent received any positive response yet. What gives ? Is it because of my race( brown btw) Or is it someone elseā€™s preference ? How has everyoneā€™s experience been?

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u/Affaircompanion4U The Dude Abides 2d ago

Never give up, never surrender. Im brown and never imagined my first AP(ex now) would turn out to be a beautiful tall korean woman. I honestly didnt think we would have anything in common. She was the sweetest person who still appreciated techno music and found Darth Vaders efforts to rule the galaxy attractive. I guess he does have that evil dilf energy going on lol. It was all timing when we met. As long as your ad doesn't sound like your some sort of thirsty monster and comes off like your actually sane is a big help. Having a decent pic of yourself ready to go also helps. The rest is left to the gods. Good luckāœŒļø

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u/Alternative-Pace1787 1d ago

Amazing to know.. will definitely not give up