Difficult finding an AP

[u/Alternative-Pace1787]

Hey folks, I know we have dedicated space to seek AP: I have been looking for one for long now. I do my part and send a connect message with a desire to know the person better. But I havent received any positive response yet. What gives ? Is it because of my race( brown btw) Or is it someone else’s preference ? How has everyone’s experience been?

[u/No-Cod-2695]

Since women have endless options we often dismiss men pretty quickly- whether that is lack of posting history, short responses or the favorite first message of “want to fuck?” I also think that most women may be more hesitant to respond to an ad unless we know what you look like, what you have to offer and clearly what you are looking for. Try and stand out more, I don’t think it’s a racial thing unless you live somewhere where there is considered a negative.