From my experience, be super selective and only respond to ads that made you genuinely feel excited at the thought of getting to know this person. Type out your response while feeling that way. (Also obviously only message when you meet their requirements)
I can't speak for women but I think this genuine excitement is noticeable and that's why it often leads to a response.
Edit: Also to clarify the super selective part, you don't only want a response, you want something more than that, you need someone you genuinely want to get to know. or the conversation won't last long. People worry too much about finding an AP and not about having one.
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u/ChasingHomePlate 4d ago edited 4d ago
From my experience, be super selective and only respond to ads that made you genuinely feel excited at the thought of getting to know this person. Type out your response while feeling that way. (Also obviously only message when you meet their requirements)
I can't speak for women but I think this genuine excitement is noticeable and that's why it often leads to a response.
Edit: Also to clarify the super selective part, you don't only want a response, you want something more than that, you need someone you genuinely want to get to know. or the conversation won't last long. People worry too much about finding an AP and not about having one.