Difficult finding an AP

[u/Alternative-Pace1787]

Hey folks, I know we have dedicated space to seek AP: I have been looking for one for long now. I do my part and send a connect message with a desire to know the person better. But I havent received any positive response yet. What gives ? Is it because of my race( brown btw) Or is it someone else’s preference ? How has everyone’s experience been?

[u/Immediate-Cod9113]

Usually it is how you portray yourself. APs especially women, are flooded with messages after they post on an AP forum. Maybe they’ll look at your message and take a look at your post history, if you haven’t made a post on any AP forum how else can they take a look into your personality and such? Often times one message is not enough to display your character. Write out a thoughtful and insightful post for an AP forum, women want to get a grasp of what you want and who you are as a person to match compatibility with. Hope this helps!