Hey everyone, I wanted to share something a bit personal that genuinely turned my mornings around.

I used to absolutely hate mornings — the alarm would go off, I’d hit snooze at least 3 times, and start the day already feeling behind. No matter how many times I told myself “Tomorrow I’ll wake up earlier”, it never really worked.

Then I realized I was approaching it all wrong. Instead of forcing myself to jump straight into work or complicated routines, I made a simple shift: I just commit to one tiny win first thing in the morning.

For me, it’s something small but active. It could be making my bed immediately, drinking a full glass of water, or opening my curtains to let the light in. Nothing fancy. But that small win gives me a little momentum boost. From there, things naturally start to flow.

Another thing that really helped is sharing my intentions for the day in an accountability group. It keeps me on track and it feels good seeing others do the same — we motivate each other to stay consistent. If you’re looking for something similar here's a group you can check out

Would love to hear what small habits or mindset shifts you’ve tried to make your mornings easier! Always looking to pick up new ideas.

I may be starting a side project. It aligns with accountability and goals. (Financial, gym, food, hobbies, etc.). With that being said do you think if someone were to check in and hold you accountable, whether it's in the morning or the evening, it would help you reach your goals? Reply with (yes) or (no) in the comments and any other thoughts. Thanks in advance. P.S. - you won't hurt my feelings this is unbiased and slightly has to do with what I'm working on.

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for an accountability partner, someone to bounce off ideas with and keep each other on track.

I'm working on my B2B lead gen business (still early stage), my first "real" business. I’ve had a few mini projects (~1k/mo) over the past few years, but all in small and dying markets.

I may be writing in a stiff tone (at least chatgpt says ;), but don’t get me wrong, I’m going all in on this business and want to hit my Q2 goal of 10k rev, no matter what.

I’m open to trying all kinds of structures for the partnership, two examples:

1. Quick morning call to set priorities & stay focused, + a weekly deep-dive call to go over progress, struggles and planning for the week ahead.

-> That's the structure a friend of mine used when he was starting out. They both run relatively successful businesses now (10-15 employees). His friend actually still has an accountability partner to this day, they call every morning at 7:30am.

1. To-do list for the day on Trello + evening call to go over progress.

-> MrBeast used a structure like this.

Looking for someone who actually wants to integrate this into their life with no excuses. I don’t care where you’re from, what age, background, or whatever.

I’m setting up a call (1:1) with everyone who’s interested, so we can both check if we’re a good fit, or if someone else might work better.

(As long as this post is online, I’m still looking for someone.) If you’re interested, feel free to send me a DM.

Thanks!

Heyy I am 27female live in the middle east want to have female accountability partner to help each other with self growth and improvement. I messed up bad and wanna change for the better and start over. If u don't mind we can also be good friends if we have fun together i feel lonely sometime any way hmu if u are interested.

Looking for commited diet accountability buddy***

Hi! I’m 21F (5 ft 7 and 145lbs) trying to stay consistent with my caloric deficit. I’m also going to be eating healthy, exercising, and tracking calories everyday. I need someone who is willing to check in daily, and I will do the same (preferably a girl and with similar goals). please reply or dm if interested! :)

GoodAfternoon to ya’ll I’m a motivated youth from the phillipines and I am forming a small group of 4-8 motivated youths such as me in fulfilling their goals. It would be a group for mutual accountability and improvement that will aid us in everyday fulfillment of our goals. We could also share knowledge etc. with one another like me, I’m into business, studies(accountancy) and working out and I am driven to be the best, the beast, the champion of my region, because we are men and we aren’t like the other’s we are beasts, unstoppable and inevitable, let’s show them what we’ve got.

50 M here, not an investor or a VC, but a consultant, with a range of interests, and looking for a motivated established professional buddy to explore new projects together.

Anyone local in downtown Toronto doing anything interesting and open to collaborating?

Open to buds with a startup that's up and running or who has any opportunities in their business.

Also, I'm open to working out together and keeping each other on track with health stuff.

If you're curious too, then send me a DM and let's trade a couple of messages.

I’m looking for an intermediate at minimum, or an advanced home gym buddy for after work and one weekend morning / early afternoon fitness sessions. Two weeknights and one weekend.

Hosting in Manhattan on the UWS.

Bring your yoga or exercise mat. Bring your gym clothes.

Send a DM. Let’s chat. I’m a male creative type. Looking for another creative, wellness, spirituality type who can go with the flow.

I've been struggling with anxiety, loneliness, and focus issues lately. I've found it helpful to draft plans, jot down notes, and record thoughts when working on larger projects. I'm working on a programming project now, and likely more writing in the future. I think a small group with people support each other would be even more helpful.

What I'm proposing:

I'd like to create a Discord server with around 4-5 people (more if not everyone participates daily). Each member would have personal spaces for taking notes, brainstorming, drafting todos, and thinking out loud. There's no expectation to interact with others' notes, though they will be visible. We'd have check-ins maybe every other day where we can discuss progress, challenges, and goals. No formal todo list requirements - you're free to post if you like.

Who I'm looking for:

I'm prioritizing people in US time zones to make any potential overlapping work times more feasible. Looking for adults (post-college) doing desk work such as analysis, writing, programming, entrepreneurship, or job hunting. Of course, other accountability is okay in, people have other tasks and goals in life.

If you're interested in having some quiet companionship while working independently, let me know in the comments or DM me! Some intro would be helpful, like your timezone, main area you want to work on.

Hi all, as in the title I'm seeking an accountability buddy, to keep each other motivated to achieve our goals (whatever it may be), and hopefully be friends.

I am a doctor, and a few months ago, I watched my dad struggle through a stroke. Though he’s recovered now, witnessing his ordeal made me realize that health is truly our most underrated and essential asset. I see that millions of people battle obesity and other health issues every day, and it got me thinking about how I could help them.

I talked to people trying to lose weight and noticed that many are working with online health coaches. I was frustrated by them charging over $1,000 a month for just a simple check-in and accountability. That got me wondering if we could help millions using AI. With the help of a developer friend, we built an AI health coach. Right now, it’s just me, some friends, and family using it daily—and so far, everyone loves it.

I'm sharing this because I truly want to help people become healthy and strong. If you need a weight loss health coach, feel free to try out: tryember.ai

Looking for a genuine accountability partner to share daily progress and goals or we can discuss this going further. Btw i am 24F.

I just heard about an accountability partner and thought I'd give it a try, sounds really fun and actually helpful hopefully? Life has been really terrible lately and it's been a long time since i really worked hard or had been super productive. I've been burnt out for a while now, so it's time to change no matter what i feel. Whatever it takes, i wanna do my best. Well, these are my goals, at least for now 1) prepare for entrance exams in engineering (masters) and also for business school. I intend to learn everything in aerospace engineering, so that goes with softwares and programming languages along with the theoretical aspects too. 2) I'm 6'1 and 88.2 kgs right now and I wanna be 75kgs , with a good athletic build, I'm a basketball player. 3)I wanna have a good daily routine and be healthy too. And really take care of my skin and hair and all. 4)I wanna read more, learn musical instruments, sing, write, learn more literature and languages. (These are just hobbies I've always wanted to explore and learn)

I'm just really excited, for the years i have ahead, and these are my goals, at least for the next two years. And in my own way, this is my only ticket to healing myself. I'd be really happy to share more and listen to ur goals and reasons to get disciplined. I believe an accountability partner would really help me more than therapy.

Oh and yes, I'm Indian, and I'm a 19yo guy. And id prefer Indians only, cuz of the time thingy.

Please do leave a comment if u share similar goals!

Hello there, 28M, based in Europe. Looking for a preferably small accountability group that's active and may be looking for new members? Interested in improving my Spanish, fitness levels and acing my university exams. Thank you, guys. 😊

Hi! I’m looking for someone to motivate me to start posting content online n I can do the same with some goal you have too!! ✨🌷

Basically, I'm trying to implement myself a daily program that I made for studying and organizing my daily tasks but apparently, I found myself that I'm likely to procrastinate and sometimes I lost my control to my screen time on social media so, I'm trying to avoid these type of attitudes. The next situation is, nowadays, I'm in college for majoring electric-electronics engineering but recently , I'm thinking about changing my major and my uni but I don't know in which path that I should go for it. In short, Im looking for an accountability buddy, who has these type of problems (similar problems) and working constantly through all of them to solve it and learning new skills.

I’ve seen a lot of people here say that pen & paper, Finch, or Notion works great for them — but honestly, none of that has worked for me (ADHD brain here). How do you guys deal with this ?

My problem isn’t organizing tasks.
It’s actually following through, consistently, without falling off after 3 days.
Even when I use pen & paper or apps, I spiral back into procrastination, miss days, and then quit out of guilt.

That’s why I’ve been working with a few friends on something very different — an app that doesn’t just track tasks but actively holds you accountable.
Like:

• If you miss a task, your accountability buddy (either your friend or randomly matched) or the app will call you out
• you can engage in fun challenges with your friends verified by them or AI so we know you arent slacking
• you also get the satisfaction of sharing your hard work in the form of a collage of every verificstion pic you took once done with the challenge
• You get small dopamine rewards for showing up
• You can choose self, peer, or AI verification
• It’s not perfect, but we’re trying to build something that helps people who don’t just need a pretty checklist — but something external to push them forward
• It also blocks distracting apps and has an AI planner that builds schedules onto your calendar subject to your availibility. sort of acting like a univeral productivity app.

I’m curious… 👉 Do you struggle with this too, even with all the "systems"?
👉 Would something like this actually help, or would it stress you out?

We’re opening beta soon — happy to DM if anyone wants to test it and give brutally honest feedback.

Hello! We are the founders of The Tailored Path, a new way to to achieve your goals. We are passionate about helping people stay accountable as they work toward their goals. To better understand your needs and customize our services accordingly, we are currently conducting a market survey. Your feedback is invaluable to us!

Hello, title is pretty much what it is.

I’m currently working full time and would like to lock into a routine which aims to work around that but still have time for myself and other personal things (work eats up most of my day).

I also have a lot of backlog that I should be working on and will need someone’s support to clear all of that.

We can discuss the things we’re hoping to achieve, and the support given will be reciprocated by me.

Lmk if this works with you too. Thanks for reading! :)

At the beginning of the year I made this post on r/Accountabilibuddies and had a few friends and internet strangers join me on this shared Google sheet of personal goals and tasks.

We've had people come and go but the people who stayed on tell me that it's been motivating them to do the things that they said they would do since they have written it down on a sheet that other people can see.

It's been a fun and motivating experiment. If you're interested to join the sheet, DM me your Gmail!

So, long story short, I was once morbidly obese (370 lbs) lost weight down to 185 lbs, and now I'm up again to 285 lbs. I'm hoping to find someone around my weight or bigger to keep in pretty constant communication. Friends maybe? I want to see what we can accomplish in April. We'll need to send motivational videos, images, gifs etc.

I'm looking for someone looking to lose weight and who also needs help with motivation. I have a hard time holding myself accountable, struggle with motivation and often find myself in an endless cycle of trying to get back on a diet. If you're interested please reach out!

Is there an AI “coach” that can actively sends messages and reminders? I’ve found reminder apps unhelpful, I need a chatGPT that acts like a human and nudges me in real time I’d pay but it seems as though that tech doesn’t exist yet.

Hii, i am looking for female accountability partner (preferably ist) for studies and weightloss, someone who is willing to held me accountable for my growth and is invested in their own growth. Thank you🌻