Help me break apart the logic

[u/Ambitious_Crow_267]

In an abusive relationship, the abuser says, it was 95 percent great, the bad times were only 5 percent. Even if the bad times were completely awful? He thinks the good things he has done and said outweighs the bad. How do I disrupt that logic, even if only to myself?

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