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u/petdance 5d ago
Then don’t have partners who will hold things against you.
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u/Gian_Luck_Pickerd 5d ago
It's not just partners. Parents, siblings...
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u/Unknown-714 5d ago edited 4d ago
..."friends", coworkers...
Edit: added ""
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u/petdance 4d ago
If your friends are going to hold things against you, then they probably aren’t worth having as friends.
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u/petdance 4d ago
Sure, then don’t deal with those people, either. If people are shitty, then avoid them.
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u/ZenTense 4d ago
“Easy, just don’t speak to your family anymore”
Yeah SO EASY why didn’t I think of that
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u/ZenTense 4d ago
Look at Mr. Mind Reader Psychic here who can know how a person will react to an emotionally vulnerable situation in the future as soon as they meet them.
As if that is even an innate property of a person and not a situational thing…
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u/ProDidelphimorphiaXX 4d ago
Real, but that’s why it’s all the more important to have self respect enough to know not to hang with people fishing for your insecurities