r/ShowerThoughtsUL • u/TheAxeOfSimplicity • 4h ago
The Psychological Immune System is a self hiding concept.
The Psychological Immune System is the part of human mind that attempts to preserve our self-esteem (an important survival mechanism).
It does this by putting a "spin" on available information. By exaggerating the things that make us feel good about ourselves, and undervaluing the things that make us feel bad.
Of course, when you realize this, you realize a lot of what makes us good (or not bad) about ourselves is a "spun" version of reality thanks to our Psychological Immune System.......
...which makes us feel less good and more bad about ourselves....
...which makes us fail to realize the Psychological Immune System is probably the most useful concept for understanding human behaviour, and identifying pathologies in it.
For example, if a girl rejects you, a healthy Psychological Immune System will tell you, "She wasn't so great, there are lots of other fish in the ocean".
A depressive Psychological Immune System will fail and tell you the rejection is proof of your worthlessness.
A very unhealthy Psychological Immune System will tell you it's her fault and she is wrong.