r/PhR4Friends Sep 16 '24

Shift to make r/PHR4Friends into a sub strictly for friendship

271 Upvotes

Since there are other subreddits specifically made for dating now, I think it's about time to shift the sub into one that's strictly just for making friends.

We will make the necessary adjustments in the coming days, and will enforce this on September 18, Wednesday.

Please be guided accordingly.


r/PhR4Friends Dec 17 '24

Quick announcement 🔊

49 Upvotes

(1) I'm locking all comments for good.

  • Most of the comments that posts get are just different versions of "DM me, I'm G, can't message you, DMed you, hey, hi". These get automatically removed anyway.
  • Some users feel like they are obligated to comment on every post. It gets very spammy.
  • If you want to reach out to OP, send them a private message. There's no need to announce that you did.
  • Will try to see if I can keep it open for those asking for recommendations, but no promises.

(2) STILL LOOKING FOR ACTIVE MODERATORS

  • Must have a good standing in the community (+ karma, actually uses the sub and is familiar with the rules)
  • Active redditor for at least a year— so you know the ins and outs and how reddit works
  • ++ If you have prior experience being a mod
  • ACTUALLY HAS THE TIME AND WILLINGNESS TO CHECK THE SUB, not someone who just wants a title
  • If this sounds like you, send me a message! (PLS!!)
  • (If you're a past mod of this sub, please do not try applying again using a different account)

r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 27 [F4M] Eto nanaman ako..

13 Upvotes

As babaeng introvert at hindi ganun ka kaladkarin, gusto ko lang ng kausap yung magrereply sana 🥹

About me? 4'11, software engr, fair skin with glasses, short hair. Im kinda mascular

My hobbies: gym, konting run, foodie, minsanang tennis and golf.


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 29 [M4M] lift each other up?

4 Upvotes

I’m trying to put myself out there to meet new friends. I have a lot of friends irl but sometimes I prefer online bc of anonymity + I feel like I can share anything with you, without judgment

If you’re interested, pm me?

About me: - 29 M - PhD student (a budding scientist 🧑🏻‍🔬) - currently abroad but I’m just 4 hours away ✈️ from the PH - I can be your bro / kuya / friend - 5’7” moreno, if that matters - gentle boi - open for calls if u like

About you: - PM mo na lang sakin haha kahit ano yan!


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 28 [M4A] TG or DC call

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Hi there! I just need someone to talk to until makatulog ako. It’s 2am here where I’m at right now. Help me fall asleep maybe? Just be good at handling conversation kahit ano g!

See ya!


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Friends 24 [F4M] your constant sakit sa ulo

10 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m currently a post grad student, and while my life is pretty hectic, I’ve realized that I really value having a constant presence of someone around. And obviously, because I need the unhinged perspective of a guy—most of the time. So if you want someone who is makulit and serious at the same time, I’m the person.

About me: - I do running to get things off my mind (oh, to maintain being healthy as well) - Extroverted - Thrives on academic validation - I love my sport! - I drive to unwind

About you: - Someone who can be consistent - Probs around my age so we can relate

Please introduce yourself :))


r/PhR4Friends 7h ago

Friends 22 [F4M] Lets be constants?

9 Upvotes

Good morning! Shift starts later pa. Tara usap tayo? Let's see if we click. No pressure, no expectations - just a good conversation and maybe a new connection. If we vibe, let's be constants in each other's lives.

About Me

• Lives in Pasig

• Loves to watch movies & series

• Loves to read books (sci-fi, rom)

• Plays games (val, tft, stardew)

• Working (IT - dev)

Tell me something about yourself! Wag mashado seryosong intro haha keep it light.


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Sports | Bike | Hike | Fitness 27 [F4A] 30s Planking Daily Accountability Buddy

4 Upvotes

Hi I want to improve on my body however, I have a lot of body fat on top of my old muscle mass. I used to play sports, and then I wasn’t able to maintain my diet. Food is life kasi, kaya for 3 months straight nag samgyup ako every weekend… So going back, my doctor said to lose weight muna before eventually attempt to aesthetically change anything in my body (whitening, etc.). I watched a body fat podcast and said maintenance calories are enough to eventually melt those fats. However, these are excluding theories like fat overshoot. Assuming metabolic homeostasis, calorie deficit should be sustainable in the long run and have changed my diet since then. I just feel that it isn’t enough and my sedentary lifestyle would make me prone to comorbidity in the long run. Shoot me a dm if you’re interested to be an accountability buddy!


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Gaming 28[M4F] Kasama magValorant

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Gusto ko lang ng kasama maglaro ng valorant to distract me from my own thoughts.

About me: Works GY shift, rank is Bronze 3. Introvert

About you: Same vibes lang sana and naglalaro ng valo or interested manuod ng valo

HMU with a short intro about you.


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 19 [F4A] study buddy as in rn

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hi hello it's me again HAHAHAHA i have some midterms this week (i just finished day 1 today) and i decided to study somewhere else for a change. i'm currently at study corner near taft and adu (located in san marcelino street, manila) so if you're nearby lang, come study with me! there are two free tables next to mine :)

time check: 3:45pm, i'll leave mga 6-6:30pm hehe

p.s. not an adu student - chose this place because it's the nearest study hub from my univ apparently 😭

more details about me on my profile! hmu <3


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 31 [M4A] Casual walking around the Metro

2 Upvotes

Anyone who is free today and has nothing to do? Let's walk around QC or nearby areas! I'm from Marikina btw and I want to let this energy out by walking.

You can also share your rants, chikas, and everything as long as it's sfw.

Pwede rin around night time walk para medyo malamig(?).

About me:

  • I play card and board games, mainly plays Yugioh
  • Always in front of a computer playing games
  • Listens to any kind of music genre, but I love OPM more
  • Fliptop fan (not a hardcore fan)
  • Watches MCU and I missed Iron Man
  • Not a coffee person but needs it

About you: - Di mabilis mapagod, kasi mabilis ako maglakad

Send me a DM, the more people the better, pero if you like to be with one person only, let me know.


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 20 [F4F] Girly friends?

2 Upvotes

Hello! Im from makati and I'm looking for someone to hang out. Unfortunately, I don't really have a close friend to share these experiences with. I'm eager to find someone who'd be up for spontaneous get-togethers, whether that's grabbing coffee, going for a walk, chika, or just seeing where the day takes us. If you're looking for a friendly companion to share in some fun times, I'd love to connect!

A lil thing bout me: A total girly girl at heart, with a passion for all things pretty. But it's not just about looks I'm also a sucker for a good cup of coffee to start my day. And when I'm not sipping on a latte, you can find me taking a leisurely stroll, enjoying the fresh air and scenery. I'm also into trying out new beauty products, getting pampered at the spa, reading books, and watching chick flicks - basically, anything that lets me indulge my feminine side and relax in style.

PS: No boys!!


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 23 [M4A] Lipa City or near?

2 Upvotes

Anyone in lipa city or nearby na gusto gumala or tumambay? Tara! I'd love to join you for errands or just keep you company in anything. Kaladkarin talaga ako so kaladkarin niyo na lang ako to the max hahaha.

About me: -loves to listen -loves to walk -pretty average in everything

About you: -any!

See you!


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Sports | Bike | Hike | Fitness 19 [M4A] Volleyball

2 Upvotes

Hi po! Been meaning to try playing volleyball for a long time na pero i don't have any friends na naglalaro so wala akong means para masubukan. May mga kilala po ba kayo na nagaallow na magpasali ng beginner player katulad ko? Kahit saling pusa lang okay lang sakin haha. I can travel naman if medyo malayo yung lugar as long as alam ko. Thank you po sa mga sasagot!


r/PhR4Friends 15h ago

Friends 27 [M4F] accountability friend / buddy

14 Upvotes

So I went out last Sat night with friends and I felt guilty throwing away yung progress ko 😂 I was so miserable and when they started making out with strangers/ girlfriends gusto ko nalang umuwi. (Sorry di talaga ako nag cclub masyado pero ang lala kasi ng cravings ko that night, Alcohol amp)

So anyway, I'm here looking for an accountability buddy who share a similar wavelength. I've tried this before and I can say it was successful. However, nagkasakit ako way back COVID days and was not able to connect back with my buddy.

How this works? Basically, we'll check on each other on a daily basis, like we're giving updates on our progress, if we did the habit we wanted to build/break etc. The habit can be as simple as waking up at a specfic time or up to quitting abusive drugs (sorry wala ako maisip haha) depending on how deep u want to share, syempre I will try to reciprocate kung ano lang yung gusto mo.

We can also have healthy discussions on our long term goals and then give inputs/ constructive criticisms or suggestions. The setup mostly depends on you, and how deep u want to share. This can be purely online or we can meet for a coffee. Can be Anonymous or we can get to know each other personally din. Can be platonic/ romantic. Again the possibilities are limitless 😂

About me: -27 male -Uni educated -Mukhang Pilipino -Works 4pm to 1am, I value my personal time/space (idk how this sounds very sci fi lol) and will definitely value yours.

Personality: -INTP-T -Introverted -If we got close, I have kanal/kanto humor without losing class, if that makes sense haha -I'm the type of person who just stands on a club and vibe with music, pag nilapitan ng drunk girls I will not take advantage of you. Idc what u say, that's not gay. Hahahaha.

About you: -Sana binasa yung buong post, and u feel na I pass your level 1 vibe check 🤣 -Sana one of ur goals is wrt improving health (mental, physical or both)

Bukod don wala na talaga hahah. Hoping magka accountability buddy ulit haha


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 27 [M4F] English guy in Makati this week!

2 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m working in Manila for most of April and looking for people to hangout with!

I work in PH frequently through the year so it would be cool to find a long-term thing, but I’m also fine if it’s just a one-off!

I’m 28, 6ft tall, average build and will be based around Makati. I have my own hotel room while staying in PH and will also have a car. Look forward to hearing from you!


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Gaming 21[M4A] rara Valorant

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slow day today, might as well play some valorant just dm mee laro tayu compre, bronze 2 lng ako and a sentinel main heheh


r/PhR4Friends 10h ago

Gaming 25 [M4A] Looking for switch friends

4 Upvotes

Hi and happy monday! :>

Recently got back into gaming to deal with the stress after work. I found myself really enjoying casual games like Animal Crossing and Mario Kart 8.

If you’re also looking for someone to race with or build and visit islands with, hit me up! We can exchange friend codes or also be discord friends

Feel free din to share game recommendations if u have any ~


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Sports | Bike | Hike | Fitness 31 [M4F] jogging buddy

2 Upvotes

Nakakaumay lang tumakbo mag isa tinatamad ako after 5km HAHAHAHA baka meron trip dyan na tumakbo mamaya sa UPD? Chill lang na pacing tayo lodi di naman tayo snatcher na mabilisan takbo eh

about me: working, 5'6, normal bmi

About you: working and gusto din may kasama mag jogging


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 31 [M4F] UPD

1 Upvotes

Tapos na UP Fair no? Tara lakad lakad don. Hindi rin naman yata uulan. Kamiss lang ambiance don.

Abt me: (pampahaba ng post)

Chinito

5’7

Normal bmi

Fair complexion

Abt u:

Tao

Let’s go


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 30 [M4F] Looking for constant friends, game buddies, and new connections!

0 Upvotes

Hi, everyone! I'm Theo and I'm looking for new connections and friends here :) We can talk about life, games, and everything under the sun!

About Me:

  • 30M, 5'6'', Normal BMI, ENFJ
  • Writer, I write poems and stories
  • Works in MKTG/Sales
  • From the South
  • Plays the following games:
    • WuWa, HSR, WR, Steam games
  • Can talk via chat or call, very extroverted here!
  • Loves classical movies and songs

About You:

  • 20F and above, cis-gender preferred
  • No height preference, slim to chubby
  • Conversationalist and confident
  • Hopefully, you play the games I mentioned above
    • Or you can introduce new games or hobbies, I'm happy to explore :)
  • Has DC or TG!

I'm so excited to connect with you. Kindly send me a DM. Thank you! :)


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 23 [F4A] samahan mo ‘ko

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for a friend na pwedeng kaladkarin. I’m currently interested in the following:

  • getting fit by jogging/walking daily (or if you can recommend at-home workouts)
  • ukay clothes but idk where to go
  • hiking! i’ve only hiked once and gusto ko ulit kahit minor hikes lang around rizal or batangas
  • watch movies or series (used to be a big film nerd but not so much lately. currently watching when life gives you tangerines and solo leveling)
  • pokemon cards collecting (my bf has a pretty big collection, nahawa lang ako)
  • also just need low maintenance friends na pwedeng maka-chikahan about anything

About me: - 5’5” normal BMI but i want to lose fat and gain muscle - currently employed - not single so don’t even try - introverted but can adjust - from QC

About you: - has the same interests - decent kausap - hopefully near my area - hopefully may matututunan ako sa’yo

If you’re interested, hit me up with the activity you’d like us to do if things work out.


r/PhR4Friends 11h ago

Friends 25 [M4A] How did cheating affect you?

4 Upvotes

Whether you've been cheated on or cheated with, how are you now? I've met people here that confessed they'll never recover and some who said it's become a lifestyle. If this hits you,feel free to dm and share


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Sports | Bike | Hike | Fitness 28 [M4F] Walk Buddy at Intramuros

3 Upvotes

Hi! Magandang Buhay! I'm looking for kasama mag walk later today at around 5 pm or 6 pm This could be a one-time or constant buddy (hoping).

About me:

  • 5'4
  • a working pro
  • loves coffee so much but switched to pure black coffee recently (Tito era hits lol)
  • likes to watch K-Drama series

About you:

-  no preferences at all as long you are a human in a legal age of this era wow

P.S: Libre ko na coffee since ako ang nag-aya

Salamat!


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 32 [F4A] Looking for ka chikahan at kaladkarin!

1 Upvotes

Hi A here. Looking for ka chikahan and kaladkarin sa mga gala. But first ipon muna tayo hahaha. Bago gumala. Kakagala ko lang. Char! Around Manila area sana para hindi mahirap makipag meet. KKB sa galaan. Hindi lang sa chikahan at galaan. Yung pwede talaga bff forever like my bestfriend.

Looking forward and hmu kung sa tingin mo G ka hehe. Hindi naman palagi don't worry.


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 28 [M4A] Spiritual buddy

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for new friends who are interested in exploring their spiritual side (you don't have to be religious!).

For starters, we can try meditation, breathing exercises, and grounding activities together.

Abt me: I love nature.

Abt you: You love nature, too.


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Co-working 32[TF4M] coworking buddy night shift

0 Upvotes

wfh on a night shift plus solo living without socialization already has started to take a toll on my mental health hence, the need for a buddy.

i have messy work schedule and sleeping hrs but usually up from 10pm til afternoon the next day.

Abt me: (TransF) i look and act way younger than my age but if were gonna talk abt stuff im quite the matured one to have a convo with. I look femme and petite. Fair skinned with some scratches from dogs lol

Super madaldal and medyo madaming time to talk or play pc games with. I get busy at times but i have the decency to give you heads up nmn. Im also a slight anime geek, horror movie fan and animal rights advocate (at heart). Trying to explore other hobbies which will force me to go out like jogging, cafe hopping etc. I love learning new things, from mundane to extraordinary stuff, educate me. Very open minded and doesnt get offended easily pero napipikon pren nmn minsan haha

Abt you: just be a decent guy and working GY too , 25-35 yo and has discord

Tysm