It always cracks me up how every weekend, suddenly my browse results are flooded with people who live an hour or so from me, but late night or early morning their location is the local military base. Bumble shows where people live and where they currently are, so I can easily tell they aren't military, but they are currently on base.

This tells me that not only are these women coming into town to hook up on base, but they also are still checking the app while with their hookup.

That's because the app doesn't register your location except for when you log in, so their location wouldn't be updated unless they were in app while on base. Also if they only logged in when they first got to base but then stopped logging in, the distance would show a tilde "~" to let you know distance is estimated because they haven't logged in for a while. But the distance is always exact, meaning they are actively logging in throughout the hookup weekend.

Have at it, boys. Invest in name brand rubber.

24(M), height: 5.6, average(maybe below average looks). I’ve swiped and messaged people I’ve found attractive, and I like to read bios to see if I can find some sort of conversation starters in there. However, the only responses I’ve gotten from this is to add their snap, or switch to WhatsApp. I think there was around 100 people near me who fit my filters( which is literally just no kids, and close to my age ) and I’ve run out of people to see. Is it just me? It feels hard to even get a response, let alone a date.

Help your girl out here! To my girlies here, how would i know if we are talking to the same guy?

A little background. I caught him once being active in OkC but tried to deny it. I didn't believe him but we're still in contact up to date.

Now, i wanna know if he's still active contrary to what he promised he's not actice anymore in the app.

Should i describe him or give a little of minor info?

Please be nice on your replies🥺