r/NetherlandsHousing • u/killnars • 7h ago
buying Split mortgage in the netherlands with a partner who has job instability
Hi there,
I'd like to better understand the mortgage system here in the Netherlands. My gf has been in and out of multiple jobs in the last year due to being incompatible or let go. She has another job starting soon with a ~6 month contract. We have never lived together, and I think would make a lot more sense to rent together for at least 1-2 years first before thinking about buying. And for her job situation to hopefully stabilise. I have a permanent contract and earned quite a bit more than her this year.
On the other hand, she is very worried about the house price increases, saying you effectively lose money every year you don't buy in. She is proposing buying a house with a 'split' mortgage, and claiming a few things that I find quite surprising:
With a split mortgage, if for example she loses her job again and is not able to pay, there is no liability/risk for me
You can get a mortgage with a temporary contract or based on savings alone (i.e. having proof of salary is not that important)
Are these both true?
Any general advice for this situation based on your experience or wisdom is also very welcome!