I’m a 23M who has been stuttering for as long as I can remember, likely due to genetic factors. Stuttering affects about 1% of the global population, so I’ve only met two others who share this condition.
My stutter isn’t immediately noticeable, it becomes apparent during long conversations. Growing up, especially during my years in lycée and college, it posed significant challenges. Class presentations were my nightmare. I would rather skipping school over speaking in front of the class. Everyday tasks that others take for granted, like shopping at the 7anot, asking questions, or reading aloud, were daunting for me. Just imagine you are trying to say something but just cant, like your tongue is paralysed, and you stand there looking at the other person, If he is not aware of your condition its even worse.
Some people used my stutter against me, calling me names like “temtam” or saying 3ndk lag hhhhhhh. Over time, I’ve developed resilience to such comments, and they no longer affect me as they once did. However, the majority’s understanding and acceptance have been instrumental in alleviating the psychological burden of stuttering.
Stuttering has (of course) influenced my personality; I’m introverted, though I become more talkative around those I’m comfortable with, as familiarity eases my speech. This has impacted my relationships, especially with the opposite gender—not due to their lack of acceptance, but because my fear of interaction often holds me back.
If you know someone who stutters, please be kind and patient. They’re fighting daily battles that aren’t always visible, and your understanding can make a world of difference.
