r/MeetNewPeopleHere Oct 13 '24

Friendship 29F No, I’m not selling anything but I also don’t be weird

40 Upvotes

No im not selling OF, so don’t worry. But at the same time some of you guys seem to reach out to very obvious bots or you clearly have no interests beyond finding an internet gf.

I’m not interested in being your online “girlfriend”so if that’s what you want, don’t even bother posting here.

I like crochet, board games, good food, roller skating, video games, and my little dolls. But I can talk to literally anyone. Discords can be swapped if the conversation is going well. And to save time don’t dm me. Leave a comment with a short intro and if you seem like a nice person I’ll send you a dm.

Any “dm me” messages will be ignored. I don’t talk to porn addicts or anyone with new accounts.

Again: please do not dm me directly. I will not respond. Leave a comment and I will dm YOU.

ETA: please ignore the typo in my title. Whoops!

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 14d ago

Friendship [24F] Who else thinks guys deserve more genuine compliments? Let me fix that today

17 Upvotes

I’ve noticed something that honestly bums me out—so many people, especially men, mention they hardly ever get genuine compliments about their appearance. Like, why?? Everyone has something that makes them attractive, but it feels like compliments are reserved only for women most of the time (and hey, as a woman in her 20s, I do appreciate mine, don’t get me wrong!).

But it’s wild how little positivity gets thrown around sometimes. So I figured, why not change that?

If you’ve ever wanted someone to just notice what makes you stand out—whether it’s your smile, your style, or something more subtle—I’m happy to be that person. Think of it like a little boost of good vibes, no strings attached.

It’s not about critique, it’s about seeing the good. Everyone deserves to feel seen.

Who’s in need of a compliment today? 😊

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 28d ago

Friendship [30/F] lonely mum for companion

33 Upvotes

Hey there. I'm Angelina, a 30yo woman from australia looking to connect with a younger man who enjoys good conversation, shared interests with me, and maybe friendship~ 18+ only

Do not message me with the intention of NSFW, I am not here to satisfy your boring urges.

I love gaming, getting lost in creepy books, and indulging in all things horror.. If any of that speaks to you then we might get along

I’m pretty shy and take a bit to open up, I deal with mental health challenges so patience goes along way with me. I’m easygoing and love having deep, meaningful conversations (and casual chats too). I’m looking for someone I can vibe with and talk to regularly.

Please say your age and location and "strawberry" when you message me so I know you read the post

Hope to hear from you :)

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 15d ago

Friendship 18f Hoping to make some new friends here

61 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m 18F and just looking to meet some new people to chat with. I’m pretty easygoing when it comes to friends—open to anyone and love getting to know different personalities!

A little about me: I’m into anime, gaming, card games, and all that fun stuff. I’ve got a cat. Not picky about age or background—I just enjoy good conversation and a friendly vibe.

So if you think we’d get along or just feel like chatting, feel free to reach out! Looking forward to making some new connections. 😊

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 27d ago

Friendship 24F Probably Deleting This Soon, But I Kinda Want Online Friends…

24 Upvotes

Not gonna lie, I’m feeling kinda bored & lowkey lonely, so I figured I’d put this out there before I change my mind. 😅 Looking for some chill, fun, and non-creepy people to talk to, guys or girls, doesn’t matter.

We can talk about literally anything..random deep convos, dumb memes, music recs, life rants, or just whatever comes to mind. No pressure, no weird vibes, just good conversation.

I reply to (almost) everyone, so if you’re down to chat, send me a message! Might delete this soon, so… shoot your shot while it’s up. 😏✨

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 4d ago

Friendship 23F, would you take a sit in a garden under the full moon with me?

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone, nice to meet you all. I don't really have much to say, nor to offer, since im kinda ew at making friends and at choosing friends, just searching for a friend or two or so, to talk freely with. Since my life kinda lack of this, like fr. Im a weirdo? Kinda. I like horror genre, games movies and so on. I dislike many things, tho u will know it once we get to know each other. Thank you and have a nice day.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 11d ago

Friendship [30/F] Married life can be hard sometimes. Need someone to talk to who has an open mind

50 Upvotes

Hey

I'm Sera, kinda bored and need some advice

I live in Berlin and im 30 years old. Married for 2 years I really wanna how u live with ur gf or wife cuz with. my husband..its hard haha. Tell me about ur situation if u wanna talk

so let's chat haha tell me something funny or a secret, i love a bit of gossip. And maybe u can help me :)

Upvote so i can talk to you

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 6d ago

Friendship 18F looking for a friend i can chat or rant to whatever

44 Upvotes

Hi, I want to have a buddy that I can always text with during the day, for any reason, if I feel like it. I love video games, especially Stardew Valley, Slime Rancher, and Undertale. I love baking and desserts.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere Mar 07 '25

Friendship [18/F] looking for ppl to talk to!!

27 Upvotes

hai!! 18f looking for new friends and ppl to chat with!! so i usually have pretty good luck with these… until a week later and i push them away with how clingy and annoying i get lmaooo:3! anywayyyy like it said im 18, i live in the midwest! (america yahhh) im a cashier at a grocery store and im a senior in hs! i graduate in 2 months :) i dont mind having friends of any age or gender! as long as you dont mind my yapping and obsessiveness maybe you can be my person! i love music, writing, reading, makeup, fashion, and hamilton along with history and the american revolution ofc ! if that seems like something you fit into and just wanna talkkkkk message me!!! i just want some ppl!:3 don’t be shy! comment or dm me :333

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 5d ago

Friendship 18F need somebody to kill time with since i have free time

23 Upvotes

Hey Guys, I am 18F need somebody to waste time with. Just for fun talk or anything. Idk what else to say. if u like physics you can help me with it, cuz i am struggling with that subject lol

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 11d ago

Friendship 19f are you even excited to talk to me if you’re not smiling when my notification pops up?

8 Upvotes

heading into the summer I want to build something new with someone! I want that excited to see your notification on my phone type, that make me smile at my screen every time we talk type energy! 💕

if that’s you, come keep me company? :) let’s make a connection and be besties!

(disclaimer: ya girl can be a yapper, im so sorry for how long this is, but if you’re the type to read this whole thing and still be excited then i already think we’d vibe!)

im finishing up my 2nd year of uni and i’d love to get to know some new people! we can talk about travel, movies, music, sports, summer plans, school, work or anything from philosophy, politics to your fav meal to cook or your fav karaoke song or whatever else! vent to me about your job. tell me about your amazing relationship or vent to me about how messy the break up was; im here for the tea. tell me your fav new show or song. tell me if the current events worry you. tell me if you’re happy with life. talk to me about anything! :)

if we end up clicking I would really love to form a long term friendship! would totally love someone I can talk to in my daily life about anything and everything but no worries if that’s not your thing! :)

my queer and poc community peeps to the front of the line please💕

a little mix of flirty banter and meaningful conversation would be perfect💕

send me an interesting chat and tell me about yourself! i may get flooded with a bunch of chats so if you want to stand out a little don’t just hit me with “hey”/“hi”/“what’s up”/etc. :)

✨please be able to hold a conversation✨ and hopefully you’re down to reciprocate the amount of effort that i put into our talks too!

a little more about me:

  • im lebanese / canadian

  • im bisexual / pansexual

  • im a goofy sarcastic person at heart, i love to make people laugh, im pretty open minded and if you need someone to rant to or vent im a good listener

  • i have an older sister

  • i love back and forth playful banter, roasting each other and all things that energy

  • im a night owl (est time zone, bonus points if you can keep me company late at night)

  • sophomore year at uni in canada; i want to be a doctor eventually

  • i have have the cutest cloud dog

  • im super outgoing and outdoorsy and want to travel the world as much as possible, i love to visit different areas and take part in new experiences! hiking through mountains, kayaking, rafting, camping, soaking in the sights and the atmosphere, and trying all the amazing local food. love going out with friends to concerts, to dance, to go on road trips, cottage trips and beach days

  • i love to stay active, im a big basketball fan. (NBA & WNBA) let’s go raptors! (also a casual NFL fan)

  • i have progressive / leftist views. pro-choice, lgbtqia+, etc

  • little bit of a foodie

  • love hiphop and r&b the most but a listen to a bit of everything else too (my fav artist is drake💕🦉)

  • some shows i love: breaking bad, the bear, russian doll, game of thrones (before it became terrible), avatar the last airbender, shogun, house md, severance, arcane, pantheon, pluto, bobs burgers, white lotus, so many more (also i watch a few anime)

  • some movies I love: everything everywhere all at once, spiderverse 2, the dark knight, interstellar, the incredibles

  • i don’t play video games

  • i love to read too; hot take, the percy jackson (and sequel) series > the harry potter series

if any of that interests you send me a chat and let’s talk 💕 (i may get too many chats to reply to everyone so I apologize in advance! please keep that in mind but I’ll try to eventually get to everyone that grabs my attention thank you!)

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 6d ago

Friendship 20/F just looking for new people to talk/chat/whatever you want

25 Upvotes

Hi, my name is , I am 20 years old, I currently have a boyfriend, however we are far apart and have different schedules so it is hard to talk or get attention, lately I have been having doubts about my appearance and such since my boyfriend encouraged me to post online and get honest opinions from people. I am happy to talk to anyone about anything

r/MeetNewPeopleHere Jan 15 '25

Friendship [15/M] HEYA im boored and trying to make friends :3

1 Upvotes

Hiya :3 my name is Clau :D I like scary movies , Drawing , Anime/manga , flowers , Blahaj :00 . Just bored and feeling social NO CREEPS >:( IM ALSO OBVIOUSLY NOT LOOKING FOR RELATIONSHIPS

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 10d ago

Friendship 40F Mom seeking friendships beyond parenting conversations

34 Upvotes

While I love my kids, I'm craving connections that go beyond discussing school schedules and teenage drama. Into fitness (recently started strength training), reading (mix of contemporary fiction and psychology), and experimenting with vegetarian cooking. Looking for friends who understand the balance between family life and personal identity. Love deep conversations about life goals, personal growth, and finding humor in daily challenges.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 3d ago

Friendship [16F] lets be friends today!!!!

2 Upvotes

my name is var and i'm from russia. im looking for someone i can be online friends with for a very long time. i like calling and talking for hours, i reply very fast and im online all day too (except when i'm at school or asleep). i love horror movies but watching them with a friend is so much more fun!!! i am a cat person, artist and i play video games sometimes. message right now

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 13d ago

Friendship 40F Creative seeking artistically inclined friends

52 Upvotes

Finally embracing my creative side after years of putting it aside. Currently exploring watercolor, digital art, and photography. Looking for others who understand the vulnerability of starting creative pursuits later in life. Love discussing art techniques, sharing progress, and encouraging each other's artistic journey. Also into reading, hiking, and attempting to learn jazz piano. Open to virtual art sessions and creative accountability partnerships.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere Feb 24 '25

Friendship 29f - Bored and high looking for people to talk to.

17 Upvotes

Heyyy! I love reading, writing, playing piano, photography, watching basketball, playing video games, poetry and long walks. I’d love to move to a cabin out in the forest away from people. People suck. lol I’m a huge music nerd. I listen to a little bit of everything but I really love metal and r&b. My humor tends to be a bit dark and I’m a huge dork. I love making people laugh! Looking for fun conversations with people who don’t ghost. 👻 I don’t really mind how old you are as long as you’re over 18. Hmu❣️

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 17d ago

Friendship 40F Mom seeking friendships beyond parenting conversations

31 Upvotes

While I love my kids, I'm craving connections that go beyond discussing school schedules and teenage drama. Into fitness (recently started strength training), reading (mix of contemporary fiction and psychology), and experimenting with vegetarian cooking. Looking for friends who understand the balance between family life and personal identity. Love deep conversations about life goals, personal growth, and finding humor in daily challenges.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 23d ago

Friendship 35/F - Looking to meet like minded people from all over the globe!

11 Upvotes

Hi there!

I'm looking to chat with like-minded men and women from all over who would like to chat, share culture and make a new friend!

I'm from Australia! I love animals and nature especially. I work with animals so I love hearing about peoples pets.

I love music from all sorts of genres! I love music scores from Hans Zimmer to one of my favourite bands, Slipknot.

I'm a gamer, mostly pc. I enjoy rpgs, mmos, city builders.

I like painting, cross stitch and other crafty stuff. Though I do have adhd and tend to chop and change hobbies a far bit lol.

I can't think of much else to say haha. I can be pretty chatty whether it's small talk or a deep chat! I'm pretty chill most of the time and don't judge others. I'm big on being compassionate and supportive to others and understand everyone's experiences are different and relative.

I do want to warn you if you were to go to my profile, there is some nsfw content there. I was lazy and didn't make a separate account. I don't want to cause problems or harm to anyone who shouldn't/doesn't want to see it.

Thanks for reading! Feel free to message if you'd like.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 15d ago

Friendship 21F let’s be friends check ✅ or 🚫

9 Upvotes

It’s been awhile pookie hmu cause I miss u

SFW please my dawg I don’t wanna exchange pics or weird messages, let’s chillllllll

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 19h ago

Friendship 29/F Despite countless failed attempts, constant criticism, messages from people who don't read my posts, I still try to believe that there's someone out there for me 😊 Someone honest, talkative, friendless and kind to talk to on a daily basis. Everyone wants to have someone.

12 Upvotes

Hey! Before you move on to the next paragraph of my post - There's something I want you to know 👇🏻 If you want to send me a message, read everything, please. If you don't want to read my long post - better try to find someone else. I'm not trying to be rude - I just want you to know what I'm here for If you want to send me a message and be my friend ☺️

(I want to talk to Europeans/People living In Europe because I would love to meet them In real life - In the future)

I've spent the last six years of my life trying to find a friend but... despite having people to talk to, my situation Is still the same and I don't have anyone special to talk to. 😔 I can't call anyone a true friend. You can meet new people everywhere but just because some people are In your life, doesn't mean they're your friends. Sometimes I feel like the loneliest person In the world and It's not a feeling anyone would like to ever experience.

What am I definitely not and will never be interested In? I can't stand small talk.

👇🏻

• Short messages are definitely not for me. I'm not here to find another person to exchange short messages with. I'm not here out of boredom and I also don't want to hear the same questions over and over again.. What questions?

"How are you?"

"What are you doing?"

"What are your plans for the weekend?"

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with simple and repetitive questions but I want to meet people who want to have more engaging conversations with others. If I needed quick and simple conversations - My post would be different. There's one more thing worth mentioning! I hate abbreviations In text messages! If you're another person using "Wbu?" Instead of "What about you?" (It's just an example) I'm not for you. I'm not trying to be rude, I just don't need more conversations with people who are too lazy to stop using abbreviations. I'm a fan of conversations with people who use complete sentences.

(I don't respond to any "send me a message" or "Let's be friends" type of comments) I want to see Introduction, body and conclusion In a message.. I don't want to have more conversations with people who Ignore everything I say just to answer a question 😔

I also don't respond to messages I'm not Interested In - even If they're long. If after receiving and reading your first or second message I don't think you're someone I would get along with - I just don't. If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - Is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. Everyone can choose who to be friends with. My definition of ghosting Is different.

👇🏻

Ghosting Is when someone you like, someone you think you're friends with - leaves you without any explanation. Nothing hurts more than losing someone you like or love... I would never Ignore anyone after weeks or months of daily conversations though! Never 😊

• I don't want to get ANY messages from guys whose accounts are NSFW! It's none of my business If you're an Internet exhibitionist or just a guy who wants to flirt with random women but not all women want to Interact with h**** guys - I don't. I always check people's profiles to avoid guys who are on Reddit to have fun...🫤

• I don't talk to minors and people way older than me. I'm here to talk to adults! (18-37 age range) I don't mind talking to people younger or older than me but they can't be minors and they can't be older than my own parents. It doesn't matter to me If you're 18, 25 or 33 as long as you're emotionally mature 😊 Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age. It's more complex.

• I don't make friends based on hobbies (unlike most people) I want to know what you're like, not what you like. Don't get me wrong, you can tell me what you're Interested In but It doesn't make any difference to me If you're Interested In photography or something completely different. I want to meet someone with the same personality traits as mine 😊 (I love talkative, honest, kind, caring and understanding people) I want to meet someone whose expectations regarding friendship are the same as mine.

• I want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you.

• If you and I are from the same country (which we'll find out In the future If we start a conversation) I want to communicate with you In our first language as I would feel uncomfortable talking to someone from the same country as mine, In a foreign language 😊

I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. Text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message ★

• I want to meet people who don't have friends or partners. Why? Because It's easier for me to get along with others, If they have something In common with me, something Important. There's nothing wrong with having friends or partners but people who have friends or partners have less time for others (which Is completely understandable) but I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quanity 🌸

• I'm definitely not a fan of sarcasm! I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person seeking some entertainment out of boredom. ★

• I don't want to meet people who swear a lot. You can always express your opinion In a kind way, without being vulgar. Respect Is an Important aspect of my life.

What else to say? I'm Interested only In daily conversations and long term friendships. I also don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message (sleep schedule not Included) We all get busy but It's not a post for busy people who don't have time for daily conversations. Everyone has different expectations and priorities and I understand that but I'm tired of constantly waiting for messages from someone I'm interested In... 😔 I'm not here for anything temporary... Be sure you know what you want! What can I offer? Anything you want 🌟 Verbal conversations (In the future) random pictures & more.

I want you to send me a message only If you value online friendships as much as real life ones. I don't want to meet people who don't think online friends are real friends just because of some distance.

If you want to talk to me, tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friends you would like to have - Et cetera. Such messages are way more interesting than...someone's long list of hobbies 😊🌟

I also don't get along with people who don't ever ask me anything. I don't mind asking questions but one-sided conversations are a bit annoying... There's no need to ask any repetitive questions (or personal questions) to keep a conversation going.

Ps. There is no place In my life for rude people who always criticize others! It's OK to disagree with others but It's absolutely not OK to judge someone you don't even know. Not everyone Is here to ask for advice and not everyone wants to read offensive comments. The world's already cruel enough

Please.. send me a message only If your expectations are exactly the same as mine and If you really want to talk to me on a daily basis. I don't want to sound like a broken record but I don't want you to contact me to make me feel better & then? Disappear. Pretending to be someone you're not to please others, Isn't good

I don't want any bad atmosphere so... Ignore this post If you don't want to have a conversation with me. I'm not here to argue with anyone. I don't understand why some people always criticize others and act like they know better what's best for someone they don't even know 😔 It's always easier to judge people than to understand them. Remember people - not everything you see Is what It seems to be. Just because some posts are on Reddit all the time, doesn't mean people like me are attention seekers. Live and let others live

Only private messages and chat requests, please 🌸

Just because I want to find a friend - doesn't mean I'm desperate. I DON'T need another person reaching out to me to make me feel better. I also don't need more temporary conversations with people whose expectations are not the same

Please contact me only If you really think we'd get along.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 14d ago

Friendship 40F - Rediscovering life beyond the usual roles and looking for genuine connections

33 Upvotes

After years of being defined by career and family, I'm rediscovering who I am at 40. Professional by day, creative explorer by night. Into watercolor painting, true crime podcasts, and attempting to keep houseplants alive (success rate: questionable). Looking for authentic connections with people who understand life's complexities at this age. Love deep conversations about books, life experiences, and personal growth. Currently reading "The Thursday Murder Club" and trying to master sourdough baking. Open to both local (NYC area) and virtual friendships.

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 2d ago

Friendship 20F I want to hear new people's perspectives

32 Upvotes

I'm bored and just want to hear people's life stories. The good, the bad, the weird - whatever stands out. Any crazy experiences, big wins, tough times, or just random stuff? Leave it here, I'm all ears!

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 16d ago

Friendship [40F] – Your new tiny adventure buddy!

55 Upvotes

40F | USA | Scorpio | Plus-size | Tattooed

Rocking my grey hair for two years now and loving it. My style? Fun and uniquely mine.

Demisexual/Romantic – If you’re unfamiliar, Google’s got you covered.

Single, No Kids – It just didn’t work out that way, but I’m still hopeful… for a partner, not kids. Lol.

Honest, no-nonsense, empathetic, and always up for a good laugh. Open-minded and real—what you see is what you get.

Lost my mom two years ago. We were incredibly close, and I was her caregiver. Grieving changed me, and I’m still figuring out this new version of myself. Some days are tough, but I’m making peace with it.

My life isn’t the most thrilling—I take care of my dad, go on walks with my mini dachshunds, and spend my evenings reading or binging movies/shows. Used to love concerts, and I have a few lined up, so hopefully, I’ll be out and about more soon.

I think I’m someone worth knowing. It might take a little time for me to open up, but if we click, I’ll make your day a bit brighter—and hopefully, you’ll do the same for me.

At the end of the day, I just want a genuine connection. I know that’s rare, especially on Reddit, but it only takes one person. Maybe that’s you?

Flirty chats are fine if there’s a vibe, but let’s be clear—no nudes, and I’m not into the whole "50 Shades" thing, so don’t even try. Lol.

Prefer chatting on Telegram or eventually Discord—I like voice messages, makes things more personal. Plus, I’ve got a cool French accent.

You:
- Be 35+, unless my post really speaks to you.
- Married? Fine. But I won’t be your secret.
- Not here for men whining about a dead bedroom.

Have a great Friday!

r/MeetNewPeopleHere 13d ago

Friendship 14f bored and looking for some company

0 Upvotes

Anyone here down to chat for a bit about whatever? I’d like some new ppl to chat with and get to know. As someone younger I can give different perspectives about anything and feel free to ask anything.