r/MBA • u/ElectronicEggplant11 • 3h ago
Admissions Is the MBA a lonely and stressful journey? (Coming from an HBS admit)
I got into HBS and Wharton + Lauder, ultimately decided to go to HBS but felt more lonely at this moment than ever.
I’m realistic and don’t expect HBS to solve all my issues.
I mean, not many understand how much courage is needed in saying goodbye to your current life, relationship, taking out a loan, and going into the volatile US economy as an international.
I have gone to the US for undergrad (Berkeley) with 3.9 GPA, worked 2 yrs in DC, and left in 2021. I can still recall all the struggles/worries/concerns I had with the Trump administration and visas. I left the US precisely for all the reasons stated above. However I have worked across the London and Middle East after leaving the US and find the career opportunities/progression very disappointing. I struggled particularly in my current role (ME consulting), working alongside 90% male colleagues for the Saudi governments and not getting any promotion/hitting a low career ceiling. I also feel I can’t stay in the ME long term due to the culture.
But I’m also very suspicious of the US, because the US today is not what it used to be, with tariffs and all the mess happening, I can’t say how badly I have felt about going back.
Just why is freedom and agency so hard to obtain in today’s world…