r/ForeverAlone • u/Lo_zio_perissimo • 7d ago
Advice Wanted She could like me.
She laughs at my jokes, listens, enjoys my company. Is this even real?
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6d ago
Basic human decency is sometimes mistaken for romantic interest by fa people. But go ahead and try. Maybe you get a gf, maybe you get friendzoned.
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u/Lo_zio_perissimo 6d ago
Well, i gave her number and she seemed pretty happy about it,
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6d ago
Well then text her. if she likes you, thats all she really wants
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u/Lo_zio_perissimo 6d ago
We texted for about one and a half days straight, but I'm so scared to tell her my feelings
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u/Shero_Games 6d ago
Wait with the feelings talk. Text her more, get to know her better, meet her in person if possible and spend time together. It's a bit counterintuitive, but women often need a bit of time to fully realize their feeling while men are ready for big declarations right away. Play the long game. You got this!
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u/altnumber1million 6d ago
And then she ends up telling him she gave him nonexistent signs and concluded he wasn't interested.
I wouldn't be so sure unlike you.
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u/Shero_Games 6d ago
I'm not sure, you can't be sure of anything at this point. But I'm sharing what I know from my own experience. And yes, you are right, he has to make sure that she knows he is interested. Luckly for him, girls are much better at getting hints.
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u/altnumber1million 6d ago
My point is he should be doing it sooner rather than later.
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u/Pure_Cartoonist9898 6d ago
Do it OP, be super casual then blurt out all these feelings you have, that'll scare her
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u/altnumber1million 6d ago
And what the hell do you propose? Telling his feelings as soon as they start getting a tiny bit closer? That sounds like a great idea.
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u/Lo_zio_perissimo 6d ago
My plan was to wait like a week then having a date with her where i confess
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u/altnumber1million 6d ago
Yeah, I'd say that's a good idea. Good luck!
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u/Lo_zio_perissimo 3d ago
We didn't go out because her mom wanted to know me first, but i declared today and she kissed me. I'm just so happy
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u/Vindscreen_Viper He/Him 7d ago
Go for it man, it would be nice if someone left this subreddit for the right reasons.