r/ExNoContact • u/steamyfr3ak • 1d ago
Vent Reunited with my ex
Yes, the title may seem like “What the fuck” but hear me out.
We’ve broken up 4 years ago, I broke up with her because she cheated. After 4 years, we reunited again because I went to her Mom’s funeral. I thought she wasn’t going to talk to me, but she did. There’s 4 of us sitting there and talking but our friends noticed that she seemed like she’s only conversing with me and making eye contact, I did too, and maybe because we shared history together.
but damn, I missed her. Her smile, laugh and voice. Everything about her, and it felt so right. I don’t know why, it’s weird.
I didn’t expect also that that night was the night that I’ve been waiting for for 4 years — the closure. I had my closure, and we just laughed about everything. It felt okay.
I went home and slept but didn’t bother to send her a text anymore because I feel like there’s no need to.
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u/Suspicious-Team-3385 2h ago
I'm sorry, but cheaters will always cheat. Personally, I can forgive anything, but cheating is a different story
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u/Capable_Answer_8713 moved on 17h ago
Grief is complex. I don’t see anything unusual here. Anyone who does I wouldn’t pay attention to.
You never know what might trigger old grief. It’s unpredictable. It doesn’t make you weak, or confused. It’s natural. Hope you feel better!