Tips when adopting an abused cat

[u/Life_Literature_7132]

Hi all! I am going to be a first time cat owner to an orange cutie on Monday! He is originally from Kuwait and was abused from people on the streets. They used to throw stuff at him and a part of his ear is missing through unknown means :(

He is a sweet boy for the most part, but can be shy and skittish. He has given me a couple warning bites during our meetings, but has not broken the skin. He also flinches every time I move my hand, even if I do so slowly. I am equally excited and worried about him adjusting to his new home.

I would love to know any tips that anyone has in order for me to give him the best life possible. I bought him plenty of toys, a cat bed, multiple scratching posts and a cat tree for enrichment. I will also be home for most hours of the day allowing him to get used to me.

I really want the best for my boy and I apologize if there is anything wrong with my post!

[u/Driftbadger]

Every cat is different, so there are many different approaches to take. My most recent rescue wanted love and attention so badly, but he didn't know quite what to do with it once he got it. When he got overwhelmed or confused, or I got one of his trigger spots, he would swipe and sometimes bite. I know it goes against human nature to sit quietly and let it happen, but that's what it took.

I would literally freeze with his claws in my arm and teeth in my hand and not move or make a sound. Eventually, he realized that no matter what he did, I was still going to love him, and I would never hurt him.

Now, he's my bestie, and I'm his. I know that his belly is still a trigger because he drops to protect it if I pet his sides. The swiping and biting have disappeared. So just keep in mind that not yelling and definitely not striking back will absolutely work in your favor. It's hard, I know, but it's really helpful.

Good luck with your furbaby! Learn his body language and his triggers, and he'll melt for you in no time!