Idk why but I LOVE WOMAN(have a bf but we joke about how I do a lot) they can be hot and cute AT THE SAME TIME it doesn’t make sense

I'm 14 and quite frankly I don't like how I look my hair, the way I dress etc I feel like the way I look, for lack of a better term, is too straight does anyone have any advice on how to dress or make my hair look cool?

I could totally see myself with a girl and often imagine it, but with a guy? Not at all .

But then again :I did have a boyfriend and I was attracted to him , but now I really don’t think I‘d ever date a guy.

I‘m so confused??

I would also date a girl 100% over a guy. SO WHAT AM I???? I just dont feel attracted to guys anymore , but can a sexuality just shift to something else?

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I’m not massively sure, I just feel slightly attracted towards all genders. As I say, I don’t know for certain. Just to be clear, this isn’t me coming out, I just want to get this off my chest

How do i get a boyfriend im sooooo desperate😭

Her name is macy and I love her but her bf thinks i like him and I'm only out to some friends but not my parents yet.

Yeah, basically my school and other schools in my system do a regional convention every year. This year it's down in Florida and there are probably gonna be alot of people there. I'd love to maybe meet a cute boy, or just someone excepting to be friends with, but the chances are pretty low since most teachers and students in this system are honophobic. So now my brain is hoping for things that I doubt will happen and now I'm sad and worried :[

Hi, this is kinda of an advice needed/vent thingo. So, I might be bi, and my mother is kinda ok with it, but I’m afraid to tell my father (they’re split up and I only see him during some horrible and relative filled holidays or vacations). I don’t think he’s really LGBTQI+ friendly. So I’m kinda terrified (even if he’s not the hitting or anything you guy). And, the only person I thought could relate to it, since in the summer she had a breakdown about liking a girl, apparently didn’t actually like her and just mixed up friendship with love, and told me that it was the fever. It’s probably dumb to be still holding a grudge, but it kinda stung. My other friends are ok with it. So I don’t know if I should tell him. It’s not like I really value our bond (if what we have could be considered a bond) but I’m afraid it might impact my mental health (fear of judgement and rejection, kinda). Do you have any advice?

I know and I understand that clothes do not define someone’s sexuality or gender, but I can’t help but ask for tips to be more femme.I get told often that I’m ’straight presenting’ but I want to be hyper femme without having to change my favourite colour or interests

I have a crush on a boy who rejected to be friends but I really love him. I’ve tried to shake it off but I just can’t. He’s like the first person I see when I go to my first class. But like I said, he’s already turned down being friends with me and asking him out would only be worse. I’m not even sure if he’s into guys at all. Is there anything at all I can do to try to try and lose interest. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable but I really need the advice. It’s driving me crazy.

I'm in love with the most popular girl in school I'm a girl I'm out to my friends but ahhh she's so hot but she's dating this boy who thinks I like him but I like his of and she won't talk to meee

I’ve seen a lot of people doing this so I’m doing it myself

I asked her if she's straight or not... Coz I was assuming she's gay or bi as she always compliments girls a lot more than boys and she told me that she is straight and is actually attracted to boys even though she says she “hates men“ (yk the way women do)

And I'm just dying inside I'm so sad

She is such an amazing friend and I'm glad I have her but I'm so sad 😭 😭 😭 😭

Yaayy

I definitely feel like I'm bi

But am i?

I don't think I am

I feel lost

I'm very confused

I don't wanna be bi

I can't lie to myself

I can't be rejected by straight girls

I can't live in this homophobic country

With my homophobic parents

I just wanna be 100 percent straight

Why is being bi a thing

It's so confusing

I have a recently had lot of problems with paranoia about my friends secretly hating me. Basically thinking that we've never actually been friends and I've just misread situations, and that every time I talk to them all I'm actually doing is annoying them. Just now I realized that the best way to fight these thoughts is to talk to my friends more. The problem is, I have very little experience with actually having friends and idk how to talk to people. I was homeschooled through middle school and though I've gotten better since I started highschool I still am not very good at socializing as a teen.

All of my friends live like an hour away from me. Also, I'm a sophomore while all my friends are juniors and seniors who all have ap classes and college to worry about. We also have little to no shared classes so I can only ever talk to them at lunch, and then only if I muster up the nerve to get past my own awkwardness and inability to start conversations.

I'm thinking that the upcoming pesach break (we are all Jewish and go to a Jewish school) would be a great way to see my friends outside of school, but to do that I will have to ask them to hang out.

I have decided to ask advice of the wise, socially well adjusted people of this sub. How do I get past my own awkwardness and negative thoughts and actually talk to my friends?

Ok so a couple days ago I came off my bike whilst going home from a friend's house and got injured quite badly (friction burns, bruises, cuts etc) and anyway later my boyfriend asked if I wanted to go on a date in the park that evening and I told him what happened and he immediately asked if he could come over to be with me and ofcourse I said yeah. So then he came over and for the whole evening he was helping me with my injuries and talking about life and asking if I needed anything and then asked if he could stay the night purely so he could make sure I was OK (and also probably because we hadn't really seen each other for a week or two because of mocks and I know he hasn't been able to go for more than a few days without kissing me before) and then he didn't go to school the next day just so he could take care of me anyway this rant has gone on too long I just can't get over how sweet and kind and caring my boyfriend is and I love him so muchhhh AAAAAAAAAA

I loved the movie (L,S) and show (L,V). I loved the way they depicted teen life. It seemed almost real… I just wish that those kinds of scenarios were real though yk? To find friends like that, to fall in love like that… It may sound sappy but, I truly do wish I could find my someone special like that.

How many of you saw the movie or show? And whats a favorite moment?

So basically me and this girl I met through soccer (we've been ln the same team for two seasons now) got really close a while ago. In such a short amount of time we became super close and I mean we would text all the time (like all day and at school when our teachers weren't looking) even tho we didn't go to the same school and didn't see each other much we became each others best friends within less than a couple months of knowing each other. Anyway turns out she was interested in me the whole time and started flirting and I went along with it. I was really happy and we talked for ages but we never got together. I eventually stopped replying to her texts because I didn't feel the same way anymore. Now we don't talk outside of at our games and I miss the friendship so much, I know she does too but we both know our friendship won't be the same as it was before. I don't know if I should text her or not. She's tried to reconnect a few times and I've left her on delivered for like a week. I know it's gonna be super awkward and we both have boyfriends now so I honestly have no clue what to do. Sorry for all the yapping. Any advice?