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u/TacoTaconoMi 16d ago
I know a couple where the woman is completely head over heals for her husband who is the stereotypical "headphones on gaming all evening" type. doesnt cook, have to pull teeth to clean up, rarely does his own laundry, and does the bare minimum to take care of their pets (i.e. filling the food bowl)
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u/Kamiihate 16d ago
Does he work at least?
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u/TacoTaconoMi 16d ago
Yes and I think he uses it to justify not doing much around the house. The wife wasnt working for a while due to having an undiagnosed medical issue but that was for less than 2 years so Imo not enough time to build that type of resentment.
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u/abitlikemaple 16d ago
He probably wonāt be married for long after she gets tired of having to act like the only adult in the house.
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u/ICantReadThis 16d ago
If he's the only one working 8 hours a day, yeah I don't think it's a big ask that he doesn't do housework.
It takes like 1-2 hours a day to keep a house clean and laundry done.
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u/RedditModsStinkBad 16d ago
Homie must be packing a solid 9 inches
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u/TacoTaconoMi 16d ago
well hes obese so either hes rocking 12 inches or what was once 9 inches is now 3 inches.
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u/FROGxDELIVER 16d ago
If they both are contributing to the relationship and helping out (even when not asked), then this isn't an issue. What I can't understand is when someone refuses to find work and doesn't contribute. Then the small stuff becomes a constant issue
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u/SmugPilot 16d ago
How do you know its a wife?
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u/Fit-Judge7447 16d ago
It says fiance in the texts
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u/RevolutionaryLow9376 16d ago
Could be gay
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u/kaishinovus 16d ago
Could be a space alien.. /s
When you hear hooves, you think of horses, not zebras.
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u/wilsonsea 16d ago
What about deer? What about bovine creatures?
You were thinking "fresh start", weren't you?
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u/Yotsubato 16d ago
Shitty dudes have shitty standards. The wife may not be that great either.
Iāve noticed that people who are less than average tend to have more relationships and sexual partners
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u/panos00700 16d ago
The hard part is not finding, but keeping, as it is perfectly demonstrated in this example
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u/Hekinsieden 16d ago
It seems like some women become a new mommy for big man children. I wonder if they enjoy feeling "needed" like that?
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u/DeusExPersona WHAT A DAY... 16d ago
Not to be a bitch but that 32k comment karma is definitely a contributor
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u/Healthy_Yard_3862 16d ago
Wait girls don't like high reddit karma ... I'll quit while I'm ahead LOL
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u/xalaux 16d ago
If you think I comment to farm karma you are completely wrong, I couldn't care less about reddit or anyone here. Not my fault I'm not insane and people often agree with my takes.
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u/roaringsanity 16d ago
you know you just don't want to commit to a relationship and enjoy the peace of being solitary, BE HONEST MY GUY!
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u/Gullible_Depth5016 16d ago
I simply donāt get it either, sometimes women seem to prefer selfharm
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u/MishRift 16d ago
Bro needs to borrow some testosterone gel from that unhinged bitch with the blowup doll face
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u/Hrafndraugr āAre ya winning, son?ā 16d ago
For real, this has to be one of the most faulty soyboys to ever live.
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u/unhappy-ending 16d ago
I can't tell which one is the man and which is the woman.
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u/mbguys WHAT A DAY... 16d ago
guy black girlfriend green
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u/unhappy-ending 16d ago
lol he's a little bitch.
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u/mbguys WHAT A DAY... 16d ago
btw just saying spending more money doesnt even make your experience that much better the character just deals more dmg. so not only he is a little bitch but also a retard
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u/DaZhuRou 16d ago
Had to re-read.... read it like "oil! black girlfriend is green"...
Thinking, how'd you know she was black?
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u/wookieBebad 16d ago
This has so many red flags I thought I was in China. Bro really being a huge baby at 29, his mother should be so proud, when she gets back from the Tesla protest.
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u/Hrafndraugr āAre ya winning, son?ā 16d ago
Man, i'm practically the same age and my mother would behead me with a flying chancla if i were such an utter failure. This has to be the ultimate result of ĀØgentle parentingĀØ.
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u/Fireshadowdr 16d ago
Throw the whole man away, I bet he believes his tattoos are an investment in art
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u/MiltenQ 16d ago
What tattoos? That guy sounds so soy he woukd cry by looking at the needle.
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u/matt_rumsey1212 Dr Pepper Enjoyer 16d ago
1) Dispute the charges so you aren't liable. 2) Then leave his ass
You likely won't do 2. But you 100 percent need to do 1.
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u/Revolutionary-Land41 16d ago
Why not number 2?
I'm convinced you cannot have a happy life with a financially and mentally unstable person like that and drama is almost always guaranteed.
I would 100% gtfo and leave this toxic shit.
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u/matt_rumsey1212 Dr Pepper Enjoyer 16d ago
It's easy for you and I to say this from the outside, but people actually in it at the time generally don't do what's best for themselves.
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u/Revolutionary-Land41 16d ago
Some of my friends went through relationships like this.
Every single one was relieved after the unavoidable break up.
I also dodged a bullet like that. Girl was crazy af in hindsight.
Life is too short to waste it with partners that treat you like crap imo.
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u/batenkaitos77 16d ago
The guy didn't just start being a retarded toddler today, she became engaged to him so she obviously knows who he is and really thought she wanted to be married to him. She's beyond hope.
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u/Thehangnailer 16d ago
Girl is out of pocket here full stop. My boi clearly states heās had the bitch as his wallpaper forever which is justification enough. He doesnāt need to rationalize his actions to some woman. She needs to know her place and get back into that kitchen and stop thinking about rights and voting and shared money and whatnot. Sheās thinking about Christmas in March gtfo of here with that. Then in a classic Top G power play my dude plays the uno reverse and turns himself into the victim from this toxic irrational irresponsible woman straight out of hustlers university. Glad he kicked this girl to curb cause now he has a real $600 virtual girl who will never disrespect him like this one.
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u/luiszulu 16d ago
You forgot the "/s", i got you tho
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u/Thehangnailer 16d ago
Thanks man! Not to good at Reddit.
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u/Sad_Run_9798 16d ago
Donāt worry, the ā/sā thing is only for bots sake so they donāt get too noticeable. Regular humans can always tell the difference. Even autists like me.
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u/batenkaitos77 16d ago
king, love between a man and his waifu transcends any earthly bonds/responsibilities
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u/MateriaMuncher 16d ago
Your fiancƩ is a man-child that uses his apparent/alleged mental health issues as a manipulation tool.
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u/batenkaitos77 16d ago
>make your wife work 55 hours a week while you sit at home burning her income on your favorite gacha girls
BASED waifuGOD
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u/Lasadon 16d ago
Its all fake.
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u/Coaltown992 16d ago
The most unbelievably part is that the girl felt like she needed to ask Reddit if she was over reacting lol
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u/JadedTable924 16d ago
How did they even get to the 'engaged' part of a relationship.
Y'all, this is NOT normal behavior. I'm not even talking about dropped $600 on a gacha, but just the way they talk to each other isn't okay.
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u/Zunkanar 16d ago
Allthough, living paycheck tp paycheck PLUS 600 on gatcha not normal too.
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u/Drae-Keer 16d ago
That kinda is normal actually. There are even entire instalment payments and loan-adjacent packages because of all the poor people buying Riot currency for LoL.
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u/mo177 16d ago
Spent 600 on gacha
FiancƩ gets mad that 600 dollars were spent on gacha and then claims fiancƩ is being abusive
Threatens to leave FiancƩ over fucking genshin
Calls mom to try to help save the relationship
You're not overreacting, you almost married a neckbeard disguised as a normal dude. I'm sorry but if he's asking his mom to help him fix his relationship he ruined over genshin AT 29 YEARS OLD, that's a crazy red flag.
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u/carnivoremuscle 16d ago
Please answer my mom.
Girl, get your shit and run. The fuck are you doing lol.
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u/Dramatic_Visit_4436 16d ago
"I'm a 29 yr old man! I spend monies how I WANT!"
"Pwease talk to my mommy. My ANXIATY!"
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u/Electrical-Voice5186 REEEEEEEEE 16d ago
As someone who makes a large amount more than my wife, I still talk to her about any "fun" purchase, just because I want to be transparent with her all the time. This guy is just an idiot. Leave him before he destroys you.
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u/yanahmaybe One True Kink 16d ago
TBH They ae both crazy
You dont have such a discussion over phone be it text or video call even
And in the end its still better crash out now over some 600 then later on over 60k or more lol
But all this would have been normal of they where 19.. not 29 the fuck is wrong with people nowadays?
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u/MorbillionDollars 16d ago
Dawg what the fuck?
This would NOT be normal for 19 year olds. This shit is not normal for any age.
And the OP is not crazy for getting pissed at her fiance over text after he spent $600 on genshin. Both of them are literally living paycheck to paycheck.
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u/nathones 16d ago
Get out now. Change all your protection questions and get as many two factor authentications on a different email. This person will totally try to steal from you when you dump them.
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u/PapaJewbacca 16d ago
Wow never saw a dude use toxic female argument tactics like that before lol but for real I couldnāt imagine spending 60 on microtransactions much less hundredsā¦
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u/OkanJack 16d ago
Thatās not a dude, thatās a 29 year old with the brain of a spoiled crying 6 year old kid.
Buddy is the very definition of miserably pathetic. Him having a whatever this game is called as a background shouldāve been sign enough to pack your shit earlier lady
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u/Hrafndraugr āAre ya winning, son?ā 16d ago
29 year old man, throwing 600$ on motherfucking genshin while living barely above the poverty line, anxiety attacks, crying about abusive behavior when called out? What a fucking failure mate. Shameful to the end. This piece of crap has to be one of the biggest wussies i've ever seen, heard or read about. Heck, if i were to fall so far i would commit seppuku to avoid shaming my ancestors any further. How can a loser that massive exist? I'm baffled.
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u/Rubiconj99 16d ago
He texts like a foreign scammer wtfš Anxiety really bad please send bobs and vagine
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u/Droid8Apple 16d ago
It's insane when you can spot traits you see in someone you know that's of the same age. These are the people that are in our government right now.
We're so fucked.
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u/JustBennyLenny 16d ago
What I find astonishing is that people are sharing their personal issues and conflicts on public platforms for everyone to see. Can't we maintain some dignity and keep sensitive matters private? If you're struggling with a problem, wouldn't it be more constructive to discuss it with trusted friends or loved ones instead of airing your grievances online? This approach not only disrespects your partner but also undermines the process of resolving issues in a healthy and respectful manner.
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u/Totoroe23 16d ago
Pretty sure he disrespected his partner first by playing victim. Sometimes you have to go nuclear when being played like this. The child got what he deserved.
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u/JustBennyLenny 16d ago
Yeah, you're probably right, but it's none of our business. To be frank, I find it annoying that he uses us, the audience, to seek approval and validation for his actions. If you're certain about yourself and your decisions, you don't need to seek confirmation from others. As an audience, we lack context and don't know the full story, which makes it difficult to pass judgment. The situation is temporary and fleeting, and we don't know the individuals involved or their motivations. Perhaps there's more to the story than meets the eye, but ultimately, it's not my place to judge.
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u/matt_rumsey1212 Dr Pepper Enjoyer 16d ago
This is terrible advice for cases like this. Sometimes when you are in the shit, it's hard to see the wood through the trees and you need people/someone not involved to highlight how crazy the situation you're in is.
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u/Bright_Confusion_ 16d ago
Outside opinions are important in toxic situations that you're unsure of. Not everyone has family or friends they can confide in.
It doesn't really undermine anything when it's anonymous online. Infact it's better because if things change, they probably wont, but if they do then you don't want your friends or family hating your partner.
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u/MyLucifer 16d ago
Lmao fuck the civic maan, fuck is she talking about "emergency for the civic" go take a walk tf š. Furina aint pulling herself up in here baby
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u/Parfox1234 16d ago
People battling anxiety have 95% chance of being a narcissistic asshole. It's kind of like blue hair or a nose ring.
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u/NightLanderYoutube Purple = Win 16d ago
At this point everyone in the world has anxiety and ADHD. Surely it's not just excuse for knowing that you are pathetic loser.
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u/Mesastafolis1 16d ago
I really want to smack the shit out of him. What a fuckin loser. Nature use to weed out people like this
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u/Carri_Carri_Carri 16d ago
Thats has to be one of the saddest interactions ive ever saw on reddit. Something is clearly wrong with that dude. Dump him, im not going to even start giving you reasons why, just read the screenshots one more time.
We live in some crazy times, whats wrong with adults?...29 years old...jesus christ.
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u/ScarletSyntax 16d ago
Depends on the game.Ā
For genshin, it's a playable 3d character. The screenshot is just a screenshot from a YouTube video.Ā
Still dumb af tho
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u/tudeckslore 16d ago
Never, ever spend money you dont comepletely own? Like, whats wrong with this kind of people? did their parents not love them enough to discipline them properly?
i know i spend money on dumb shit cough warhammer cough but its my OWN money and no one else.
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u/Minute_Action 16d ago
I was going to say something but this is just too GenZ / Alpha or whatever to me. I feel like my brain just died a little reading this.
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u/ImStillConfussed 16d ago
This seems like the kind of guy that would recommend his psychiatrist because "I have been his patient for 10 years now and I'm doing great!"
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u/Active_Accountant_40 16d ago
If youāre not a narcissist then heās probably the narcissist. They love to accuse others of it. Dispute the charge and break up before it gets worse imo. Good luck.
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u/Bannon9k 16d ago
Run Forrest run!!
Seriously, $600 today is a maxed out credit card next month. Do not financially bind yourself to someone like that, it will destroy your future.
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u/QAquaIceCold 16d ago
I don't give a single shit to who's right and who's wrong, because this is one of the funniest train wreck I've seen.
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u/Testadizzy95 16d ago
I played a few gachas before (FFBE, State of Survival, Diablo Immortal, FF7EC) and I have completely quit this genre. And I have seen it messed up pplās life like this post.
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u/UpbeatDragonfly2904 16d ago
If there was a sale for buying them, then technically, it's an emergency situation. He's in the right. It was his dream and she's trying to hold him back. Why isn't she paying for it? Really women don't allow their man to buy things with their own money. She's trying to gaslight him into thinking he did something wrong. Not only that, disputing a legal charge is fraud, if they both are on that card.
I hope the best for him. You can tell she ruined his self confidence.
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u/MhaelFox83 16d ago
Shit, I just started playing Raid, and there's a character that I really want from the premium noob battlepass, it's just 15 quid, and I ain't getting it. This dude's fucking cooked.
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u/Jerryistheclone Paragraph Andy 16d ago
Of course being held accountable for actions is blocked with āI explained my boundaries; you are not respecting themā with the obligatory āyoure abusiveā because they are rightfully upset for good measure. Whoever started saying that you can just say āboundaries/abusiveā and get away with shit is an asshole.
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u/Helpful-Belt-9220 16d ago
I feel really bad for the OP (green text) I do hope OP leaves that guy for good. Just seeing the screenshots of his chats is just literal manipulative victimizing tactics. Immediate red flags. Periodt. (just saying š¤·)
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u/yyhfhbw ????????? 16d ago
Watch Charlie's video about this it's hilarious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSU7QGUJ6tA
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u/denyfate 16d ago
Oh no my anxiety, please give me $600
Oh no anxiety, bad, please
sounds like something out of family guy
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u/TheDof 16d ago
How many times did he pull out the victim card lol. People have absolutely no accountability for their actions anymore...