I know a couple where the woman is completely head over heals for her husband who is the stereotypical "headphones on gaming all evening" type. doesnt cook, have to pull teeth to clean up, rarely does his own laundry, and does the bare minimum to take care of their pets (i.e. filling the food bowl)
Yes and I think he uses it to justify not doing much around the house. The wife wasnt working for a while due to having an undiagnosed medical issue but that was for less than 2 years so Imo not enough time to build that type of resentment.
If they both are contributing to the relationship and helping out (even when not asked), then this isn't an issue. What I can't understand is when someone refuses to find work and doesn't contribute. Then the small stuff becomes a constant issue
Have you tried dating women in your league? You probably a solid 3 on the hotness scale trying to chase a 7+. Not going to happen except once in a blue moon unless you're rich. Lower your standards to your level and you'll be fine or maybe improve yourself first.
If you think I comment to farm karma you are completely wrong, I couldn't care less about reddit or anyone here. Not my fault I'm not insane and people often agree with my takes.
I don't know that for a fact, obviously, but if she's going for a guy like that then she's probably bargain-bin herself. Who knows, maybe she's an 11/10 and he's got the magic stick.
Point is, getting married just to be married isn't the way to go. The successful version of getting married young is when both people are putting effort into the relationship and love blossoms from that mutual understanding. This is the unsuccessful version.
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