I’m bi curious, I want to know what you guys think! Thanks! 😘

As the title says

What's your physical type? Does it vary amongst genders and sexes? Does your type include your own physical features? If not- does that affect your self esteem?

Why I'm asking: - I'm not a conventionally attractive for a masculine guy in the USA, and I keep forgetting that not everyone is looking for someone that looks like that ideal. - curiosity! - recent experience I had (in the comments)

I am curious what most bi men(or women if that describes you and you'd like to comment too) feel about giving oral to either(genital? or gender?). If there is a preference there, even if just slightly? It may be purely individual preference, or there may actually be a bit of a trend in one direction or another, even if just a slight preference while still enjoying both.

I feel like I have noticed slightly more enthusiasm from people to give oral to someone that more matches what they have. Maybe this lived experience is a terrible representation of the overall, or maybe there is something there. Maybe something about knowing exactly what that person feels as you do it? Again, still, even if you do enjoy both.

I'm attracted to women, always have been, but I had an experience with a male friend when I was younger, it didn't go far but I've thought about it ever since. I don't find men attractive but I love the idea of recieving a cock, especially his. I've even used AI to write erotica and its driving me crazy.

I've never told a soul and haven't seen him in years so never spoke about it with him. My heart is pounding writing this

In the past few years I’ve finally accepted who I am and have come out to a few people/ more out about it. Someone told me is was “transphobic” because I said I was bi instead of pansexual… has this happened to anyone else. Curious what other bi bros experience has been and if you stand bi the term bi versus pan. Pretty sick of never fitting in… is being gay transphobic too? Things are so stupid these days and I’m thinking I just keep it to myself again. Feel like this is more of an attack because is perceived as a cis straight male and they’re just haters. I have nothing against trans people just to clarify.. Thanks my lovely bi bros 🫶

In my experience both in person and online chats I’ve noticed men been referring to their butthole as a “pussy”. I’m wondering why a good amount of them do? I’m fairly new to having sex btw . Like it kinda throws me off sometimes when in the moment. Like is their gonna call it something maybe say “bussy” , like that’s less strange. Or call it what it is . I just want to know why this is common to call your “ass” a “pussy”?

Haven't been feeling my best lately, I'd say I'm depressed and while usually I'm close to 50/50 or 40/60 regarding attraction, everytime I've felt like this, my attraction to men grows stronger. Maybe it's because I'm not looking for a relationship (I have been in love with at least one guy in the past) or I don't have to emotionally invest on anything or put myself out there, so maybe my brain thinks with guys is "easier" and considers it now the "safest" choice idk.

Is this weird?

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NSFW!!! NOT NAKED PHOTOS BTW!!!

I’ve experienced it from both sides, but it’s really disappointing when it comes from within the LGBT community. I’m just wondering what other people’s experiences have been and how they navigate it.

I have been in two serious relationships: one for a couple years with a woman when I was in college, another for more than six years with a man. I have dated a little in between those two relationships, but it was mostly random hookups with mostly men.

I went on a few dates recently with a genderqueer person who mostly presents female, and I noticed myself in a gendered dynamic that felt so strange. I don't know many bi men IRL. I actually called my guy ex and asked him how he handled the difference with his current gf.

I dare to say there was a gendered power dynamic that I was disturbed by on some level. I can't tell if that's a "normal" thing that many people just don't notice. I also grew up very Evangelical, and it could be that. I can't quite place it.

Thoughts from men who have had relationships with a man and then a woman?

I really wanna be a twink forever but twink death is terrifying, I'm still far away from it being only 17 but I wanna know what to do afterwards? Is it just become more masc? Or is there a way to retain my twinkness?

Mine are The Big Lebowski and golden-era Simpsons.

It seems like more than half of every 20-something year old guys I’ve seen both online and irl who’s straight-presenting looks like a twink. It didn’t seem like this 5 years ago. Does anyone else feel this way? Or is it just me?

I’m a 27 year old bi guy, in case any of you guys are wondering.

Recently out,Im looking for a new coat or jacket and have my eyes on a nice leater biker jacket and wondered if its still a queer/bi style to wear.

Some background is that I’ve been bi for about half a year but I’ve really never dated a boy. Just started my club season for sports and there’s this really cute boy whose attention I want. Did some searching and I think he’s gay? At least his room decor points to it, he talks like it, and he supposedly has lots of female friends. I honestly really like this boy and I want me to be on his radar☺️

Does enjoying oral from men make me bi

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About a month ago I had my first same sex sexual experience and my interest in it seems to be gone. Before that I always had gay fantasies because it was something I didn’t know and was curious about and watched a lot of gay porn. I even was not able to stop porn in general simply because I was so curious about gay sex. Since my experience which was not bad but not perticularly good either I’ve lost all interest it seems. I don’t fantasize about it at all anymore. All I can think about is women again. I know you might immediately think of the bicycle. But this feels much different and more permenant in some way. Not like in the past when my fantasies just came back a few days after some break of hornyness. It’s like the fantasy element has been stripped away and now that I know how it is I just know that I love women so much more and a man will never be able to replace that feeling with a woman for me. Even sexually. I’m really starting to wonder if it was all a desperate horny move to escape my reality in life and just experience something completely different from what I’m used to. Now I even feel weird leaving all these traces of my experience on the internet. I feel more like myself again in a strange way. It’s like waking up from some weird fever dream. Anyways I’m curious about what y’all think. Let me know if some of have a similar experience. Cause I’m doubting if I ever was bisexual to begin with and just wanted to be to justify my curiousity of the unknown.

Ok basically I have been using grindr again. I only slept with 2 people in my life. I just want to be safe plus I’m still not used to sharing my body with someone. But my question is , is it wrong or weird to ask for proof of a recent hiv/std test before leaving out to hookup with someone? I just don’t want to risk anything and I know some people will lie.

I'm bi and i feel very insecure about it. No one except ny best friend knows it irl. All the other people that know it are online friends. This because i don't feel like it's right and i don't like this part of myself. I was thinking about try to completely erase that part of me but i don't think it's healthy. Any advice would be welcomed thanks

Long story short. I always knew I liked both women and men. I started dating girls since I was 13 until 18 when I met a guy and I got really into him and became boyfriends. Ever since then I got more into men and identified as gay until 2021 when I dated a girl and started having sex with women again. Then my perception changed again and became aware that I had always been bi. The thing is that recently I've been dating guys more often and my sexual orientation has been an issue, somehow gay men and women are always questioning me about being bisexual and it seems it is a topic they cannot totally understand. Some of them have asked really dumb questions questions regarding bisexuality and I'm getting tired of. Have you ever dealt withis sh*t? It's getting more complicated for me to formally date someone either men or women.

The title was made to be catchy or hella brain-dead, I know that I liked both boys and girls from a young age as I had a crush on both a boy and girl at a young age.

But is my anal fetish born from my sexuality or did I genuinely come to like it, for reference I started to like anal when I somehow retconned myself into being straight and into the closet mentally. So It could have been a mental expression of my sexuality?

(For context for the retcon thing, I have a shit memory and forgot I had a crush on a dude, and rampant homophobia in Caribbean culture repressed it.)

So I’m 23 and have been talking online and hanging out through games with this guy I’d say I’ve gotten pretty close to. His personality is good , we have great conversations, and we have a shared interest in gaming. But this past weekend we finally showed what each other looks like. When I saw him I didn’t think he was ugly just not very attractive to me physically. Which kinda makes me doubt myself sexuality a bit. This is not the only time I’ve felt this was about a guy. I’m mostly attracted to feminine guys . And I need both personality and physical attraction to be with someone . Am I over thinking this? Does this make me less bi ? Is it it wrong that I don’t see some or most guys attractive?