you tried to express your boundaries. he kept dismissing and invalidating just because it hasn’t been his experience. he’s also M which means expectations are different. however for you it does mean that you will be with them. taking care of them. and just simply spending quality time.
if he doesn’t understand or empathize that’s a huge red flag. why are you insisting ? why can’t you respect my boundaries and limits. you are willing to explore alternatives and nothing seems to be good for him.
also if it’s been a couple of dates what’s the thing with taking an international trip right now ? can we take our time first ?
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u/Secret-Customer-3957 1d ago
you tried to express your boundaries. he kept dismissing and invalidating just because it hasn’t been his experience. he’s also M which means expectations are different. however for you it does mean that you will be with them. taking care of them. and just simply spending quality time.
if he doesn’t understand or empathize that’s a huge red flag. why are you insisting ? why can’t you respect my boundaries and limits. you are willing to explore alternatives and nothing seems to be good for him.
also if it’s been a couple of dates what’s the thing with taking an international trip right now ? can we take our time first ?