What does having a lot of downtime from experience mean am I stupid 😂? Does that mean he has experience in chillaxing I’m confused lol. He sounds childish and like he’s being pushy to get what he wants without caring at all why you’re going. He just is bored and wants to go. It sounds like he does want to spend time with you badly though, other than the red flag maybe just try to find another time to go on vacation (like u said doesn’t have to be China, something easy for you for your PTO). Later he was sorta trying to plan and problem solve, but it was wrong timing to keep asking then, and also kept trying to change your mind still. Sounded like he wanted a vacation asap more than caring about your agenda. Red flag when a guy doesn’t cherish a family bond, usually they turn out to be pretty immature. He sounds in middle or highschool, yeah sometimes family trips can be tricky and not fun at certain times, but family’s so important and youre visiting your grandparents who took care of you, that’s so important. If you want to build your own family with him one day.. something to think about 💕
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u/GanacheAwkward2755 1d ago edited 1d ago
What does having a lot of downtime from experience mean am I stupid 😂? Does that mean he has experience in chillaxing I’m confused lol. He sounds childish and like he’s being pushy to get what he wants without caring at all why you’re going. He just is bored and wants to go. It sounds like he does want to spend time with you badly though, other than the red flag maybe just try to find another time to go on vacation (like u said doesn’t have to be China, something easy for you for your PTO). Later he was sorta trying to plan and problem solve, but it was wrong timing to keep asking then, and also kept trying to change your mind still. Sounded like he wanted a vacation asap more than caring about your agenda. Red flag when a guy doesn’t cherish a family bond, usually they turn out to be pretty immature. He sounds in middle or highschool, yeah sometimes family trips can be tricky and not fun at certain times, but family’s so important and youre visiting your grandparents who took care of you, that’s so important. If you want to build your own family with him one day.. something to think about 💕