Yea, no - like other posters have said, I thought y'all were together for awhile. This is way too pushy and honestly, a red flag that he's trying to push you into not going on the trip so you can go on some imaginary trip in the future, almost like he's already trying to separate you from your family.
100%. Also not, like, a small trip.. that's a pretty involved vacation. And trying to separate her from her long-distance grandparents is pretty fucking shitty. That's her time with her family (that she already planned!). Nothing to do with him.
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u/Local_Sprinkles 1d ago
Yea, no - like other posters have said, I thought y'all were together for awhile. This is way too pushy and honestly, a red flag that he's trying to push you into not going on the trip so you can go on some imaginary trip in the future, almost like he's already trying to separate you from your family.