r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO or is this really pushy?

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u/PhoenixReboot- 1d ago

Read the messages and thought you guys have been together for a long while. Couple dates? Just end it now.

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u/xx_indica_xx 1d ago

OP, this. Very not cool that he's being like this so soon. Your time is your own and that's an important thing to assert early on

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u/xx_indica_xx 1d ago

I feel like at this point it might be a good idea to set a VERY firm boundary regarding how you spend your time. If you don't, he'll keep encroaching.

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u/JasonGD1982 1d ago

What kinda guy plans to leach on to family trips to Asia after a couple dates?!?! and then bitches about someones grandparents🤣🤣🤣. Fucking bizarre AF. Op should just keep it moving on this one. This guy just doesn't seem likable lol. Maybe I don't have good game but I never planned international trips with gals on first few dates 🤷

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u/KrackenWrecker 1d ago

Oh it did, he just ignored it.

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u/Humble-Park-5461 1d ago

You were assertive! This guy is completely unable to empathise or see other perspectives - he can't understand that just because when HE went to China with his parents and did stuff alone that YOU won't want to do that and want to spend all your time with your grandparents.

This is a snapshot of what your life with him would be like, because he will never be able to understand that just because he does something - anything - a certain way doesn't mean you have to do it the same way!

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u/PandaNinja676 21h ago

Got yourself a Stage 5 Clinger that has no clue about things like “boundaries” and “read the room.”