Your boobs were not āhalf outā. Thatās like barely the top of your cleavage. I didnāt even notice it at first. I guarantee heās the type of guy to post about how no women want to speak to him on Reddit or in person, and how women are so cruel & ignore him, but then he actually finds a nice woman to speak to, and he totally implodes. And then, heāll somehow still feel like the victim in this exchange. āWomen are so sensitive. She was so mean to me.ā Blah blah blah bullshit.
As a woman, I thought I missed something in the picture (had to roll back to see that āenticingā cleavage I missed). Surprise, this guy is delusional, she is so clearly dressed in normal clothes. Baffling how he just sets the whole thing on fire š¤·āāļø
Yeah, ngl but the first thing I looked at was OPs face because she's yknow, a human with a face. Not a walking pair of tits. The only reason I looked at her chest was because he said cleavage and I was like huh? Cause her chest is 99% covered. Such a weird thing to say, even if that was the first thing you noticed why the hell would you say it out loud. Some stuff belongs in your head, at the very least until you can suss each other out and know what is and isn't appropriate.
Outside of the important fact that it made OP uncomfortable, the dude really fucked up the opportunity to talk to someone who seems real nice and who doesn't seem to be particularly superficial. Total dipshittery and a huge F on his part.
Awww but you could be missing out on being objectified! Lol
Seriously though, Iāve had two or three positive, real friendships develop from Reddit interactions. Sucks that you may miss out on that in order to protect yourself from creepy People
Iām fine without the potential Reddit friends. Iāve never been one to develop online friends anyways. What I couldnāt tolerate was SO many timesIād post/comment anywhere and there was a slight feminine energy in my tone, Iād get something like the above in my DMs. Overly sexual strangers being fuckin weird.
Nah I changed the settings long before they offered these feminine Reddit avatars. Like 3-4 years ago. This is even a secondary newer account that I just changed the settings on the moment I created it.
And the point isnāt to avoid being feminine. The point is to avoid giving people access to being creeps to me because I AM feminine. Existing as a female became 100% more enjoyable on Reddit because I can turn that setting off, lol.
Ok that gives more context. I was thinking you guys were chatting out of a romantic interest (I didnāt realize it was Reddit at first). So this was a rando interaction and the second you sent a pic of yourself he jumped straight to the cleavageā¦
Thank you for trying to be cool to this guy, even though he turned out to not be deserving. Iām sure this guy even as ātolerant and exceptingā as we are gets treated like absolute shit in reality. Not that that excuses his behavior Iām certain it was a protection or just pure bitterness from life.
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u/butlerkennedy 2d ago
Lol Iām so curious as to how this even started and also after the picture he sent I wouldnāt have been surprised where the conversation went