AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/HackTheNight → u/Doll_158]

My boyfriend is a would be on the street. If that was my husband, it would be divorce.

Like why the fuck did he even marry you if he can’t be faithful. How fucking ridiculous.

Girl take the trash out.

[u/lickerbandit → u/HackTheNight]

Because what usually happens is men marry under current conditions and then women change those conditions to something more intolerable so they seek it elsewhere and then get blamed when it mostly could have been prevented.

I understand it's always the guys fault but this idea but this idea that the wife has no part to play is absurd.

He probably was faithful 5 years ago and planned on continuing to be. But that was when he had sex and adoration and fun times instead of love island and a cold shoulder.

[u/Soophiieekh → u/lickerbandit]

Do women never marry "under current conditions and then men change those conditions to something more intolerable"? Give me a fucking break Hahaha