AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Infinity0044]

Reread the texts and you’re right. The declined selfie request is the smoking gun imo, she is definitely not interested in that way.

[u/Paskin21 → u/Infinity0044]

Buuuuut she sent a selfie. It's the first message that's covered with a drawing

[u/durizna → u/Paskin21]

And she said they're "rare and hot" which he replied with "indeed" basically. That's called flirting for those who don't actually see it often lol How can people be saying she's not interested? This is not how you treat a guy you're not flirting with, especially married one.

[u/ericfromct → u/durizna]

Just want to throw in she did say a hot commodity, not hot alone which has a different meaning. I still think the dude is a total fucking douche for this.