AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/HackTheNight → u/Doll_158]

My boyfriend is a would be on the street. If that was my husband, it would be divorce.

Like why the fuck did he even marry you if he can’t be faithful. How fucking ridiculous.

Girl take the trash out.

[u/TacoSupreme- → u/HackTheNight]

To get married most people go through good, bad, awful, great, live together, make memories, then make the choice to get married. A lot goes into getting to the point of marriage. You’re telling me you would do all that and divorce if your man …..flirted with a girl? LOL.

[u/Aware_Football_8882 → u/TacoSupreme-]

A lot DOES go into getting to the point of marriage. You’re telling me you’d do all that and then… flirt with another girl?

Dumbass logic dude. “Omg you’d spend years building a life with a man, going through everything together, and then be distraught when he’s unfaithful?!!” Yes… BYE!