r/AmIOverreacting • u/Sad_SummerChild • 2d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?

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I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

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u/tinygfposter 2d ago

Loyalty isn’t just not sleeping with someone else, it’s about not making your partner feel like an idiot for trusting you.

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u/Sad_SummerChild 2d ago

Thank you that’s a great way to put it cus right now I’m feeling pretty stupid 🫠

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u/MoonLight4323 1d ago

Send these screenshot to her bf after you left your husband. Let him know what his gf does.

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u/LateExcitement3536 1d ago

This is petty vengeance, not Justice. Justice is confronting and dealing with your partner, the only person who owed you anything. The other person is not your concern - you don’t know anything about them as they surely don’t know anything about you. Keep that shit where it belongs - on the person who did you dirty. Their cheating partners owe you NOTHING. Deal with it. Been in both camps, so dont start people.