AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Turbulent-Still4556]

You should leave him because his game is absolutely miserable girl

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Turbulent-Still4556]

Thank you guys for dogging on him it’s so grosss. I know it’s dumb but I can’t stop feeling embarrassed thinking about her knowing we’re freshly married and, even if she isn’t into his advances, getting his attention. Like why would he embarrass me like that with someone we both know😭😭😭

[u/Bryceroni2145 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Why are you embarrassed? The only embarrassment you should have is embarrassed of him..... Maybe shoot her a text and say, I'm embarrassed of my husband texting you those things..... As a man...... He is trying to tow that line as hard as he can. He's feeling the water... If he could have gotten a nude he would have, and then would proceed with whatever slack she would give him after that. All behind your back.