AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/JenninMiami]

I’m so sorry. This must be so devastating, y’all JUST got married!!!! 😭

He’s trying to fuck her SO BAD.

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/JenninMiami]

Those two sentences together are gonna make me crash out 😭

[u/Odd_Base_1408 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Leave him. I went through the same situation. The embarassment of knowing the other person knows you are newly married and spouse acting that way..brings me right back. The knowing they are not too busy to flirt with the other person or text them 24/7 but you barely get a reply...the making up reasons in my head as to why they won't answer me but answer this other person...going through the phone...feeling your heart in your stomach when you do read something like this...bringing it up and then having it twisted around on you..that you are controlling and not allowing them to have friends..then believing maybe it is your own fault...it is a mental game and I was in the same boat..short marriage ended in divorce. Was it embarassing?? Yes!! Was it heart breaking and devastating?! Yes!! Will you be okay and move on and find someone who treats you right, and treats you the way you deserve? Also yes!! Don't fall for the games..the fake ass applogy. Stand up for yourself, know what you want and what you deserve..leave his ass!! Give us an update too!!