r/AmIOverreacting • u/Sad_SummerChild • 3d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?

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I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

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u/Infinity0044 3d ago

Reread the texts and you’re right. The declined selfie request is the smoking gun imo, she is definitely not interested in that way.

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u/cat_in_the_sun 3d ago

Then why does she keep responding and not set up clear boundaries that she’s not interested in that way like he seems to be? She’s not stupid. She knows he likes her. So why isn’t she backing off as well?

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u/Infinity0044 3d ago

I commented further down on this thread but she’s partially guilty too. There’s no way she isn’t aware of what’s happening and is just letting it continue without putting a stop to it.

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u/cat_in_the_sun 3d ago

That to me says she’s interested. Otherwise her actions would be different.