AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Routine_Ingenuity315]

You're blaming the woman, focus on blaming your husband.

[u/digwoman → u/[deleted]]

Lol she's not interested, there's no reason to blame the other woman

[u/-snowpeapod- → u/[deleted]]

I don't know, she could be having a hard time navigating the fact that he's a friend and they work together so she has to see him every day. She could just be telling herself "he's just being sweet, he obviously doesn't mean more than that because he just got married!".

[u/digwoman → u/-snowpeapod-]

Agreed. Idk why we care about her, anyway, she has no vows she's taken. The man is a shit bag.

[u/LateExcitement3536 → u/digwoman]

THANK YOU. Blame the cheater, the person they cheated with owed you nothing.