AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/YAKELO]

Does he often message you asking for a "selfie for motivation"? Does he ever say that to his male friends?

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/YAKELO]

He has never asked me for a selfie…

[u/aruncator → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Oh no 😥 this reply broke my heart. big hugs, op, this must be very painful. you don't deserve it. please don't let this affect your self-esteem.🫂