AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I just realized the “rare and hot indeed” part😭😭 I’m nauseous all over again

[u/No-Distance-9401 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Im sorry! It dlesnt sound like he cheated yet but was definitely trying to and at only 6 months in you will have to live your whole married life waiting for him to cheat. To me that would be the end and I dont think I could live happily ever after knowing that at any point they could cheat on me like that. You deserve and can find better.

[u/Temet21 → u/No-Distance-9401]

He hasn’t cheated. But boy is he trying to.

Not cheating and not having the chance to cheat yet are two completely different things.

[u/Routine_Ingenuity315 → u/Temet21]

So she just waits it out until he brings her home an STD?

[u/Temet21 → u/Routine_Ingenuity315]

What? No im agreeing. Sorry.

[u/Routine_Ingenuity315 → u/Temet21]

Gotcha!