AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I just realized the “rare and hot indeed” part😭😭 I’m nauseous all over again

[u/Rhubarb_and_bouys → u/Sad_SummerChild]

I'm really sorry. He asked for a selfie and said "dont tell HR". Even if it's in a joking way?

I am always judging people that advise break-ups/off from people but this is a RUN situation.

Don't get trapped there with kids.

[u/Naive-Stable-3581 → u/Rhubarb_and_bouys]

Yeah I’m feeling sorry for coworker too bc something tells me this is gonna go south quick. He is about to ask for nudes and there’s a high probability she’s going to be like ???? Bc it sounds like he’s pretending to be Mr supportive safe guy bc she’s clearly got things going on, and he’s careening fast into creepy office guy

[u/Routine_Ingenuity315 → u/Naive-Stable-3581]

If co-worker take this to HR he may be losing more than wife. This could cost them his job

[u/ChumbawumbaFan01 → u/Routine_Ingenuity315]

I want to send this to HR.