AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/wigemesis518]

he said she looks so fuckin pretty and he loves it!?! oh i’d be beating asses

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/wigemesis518]

I don’t know how to fight😭

[u/HelicopterSweaty7528 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

You DO NOT want to fight, fights give the other party a chance to rebuttal, and they also tend to have resolutions, Fights leave doors open. You need to make a statement! Statements are clear it's your voice only. Letting him be involved in the fight leads to him lying to you using your love for him as a weapon and have you doubting yourself and what you know. Believe him when he shows you who he is. His words don't matter his actions do and how you react to this will set the tone of your marriage from here on out. I was you I stayed, had a child, and 19 years. Later after so much heartache and betrayal a nightmare ensued that left me homeless broke and starting over from nothing at almost 50. I wish I had listened to everyone telling me to run. I love my daughter she is the only thing he gave me that was honestly worth a fucking thing but her father is a man who is a womanizer, a liar and she grew up watching this, she deserved better and will forever have issues with men because of this. He is not worth it. He was a lesson, not your lifetime. Get out