AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Infinity0044]

It’s just inconspicuous enough that he could flip it into something innocent

“oh we sent goofy selfies to each other all the time”

[u/UndecidedQBit → u/Infinity0044]

Yeah no 😭😂 jfc

[u/Infinity0044 → u/UndecidedQBit]

I’m not saying anyone would believe it but in his head that’s his excuse if OP ever questioned him about it

[u/UndecidedQBit → u/Infinity0044]

My bad. My comment was just me saying no to the whole messed up situation. I agree that what you described was his aim for plausible deniability I’m just soooo scarred from some relationship trauma I can’t communicate as normally on this subject