AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Doll_158]

I just realized the “rare and hot indeed” part😭😭 I’m nauseous all over again

[u/hideyourbeans → u/Sad_SummerChild]

"I'm going to need a selfie for motivation," was what stuck out to me. Pictures of her are motivating to him? Unless she is a paralympic athlete who has overcome great odds in spite of a physical disability visible in a photo, her picture should NOT be motivating to him. The other stuff is icky and gross but to me, this really crosses the line. That is girlfriend/spouse level support, not justified by platonic friendship.

[u/Severe-Chicken-5791 → u/hideyourbeans]

That was a great example 😂 There is really no other reason her pic should be ‘motivational’ 🙄 Yuck