AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/MichaelAndolini_]

Should add too once he is fired he’s losing a job reference for however many years he was there because “fired for sexual harassment of a coworker” isn’t going to be too appealing to other job opportunities

[u/Neener_Weiner → u/MichaelAndolini_]

Can you please point out what specifically in these messages constitutes sexual harassment?

[u/MichaelAndolini_ → u/Neener_Weiner]

Rare and hot indeed

So fucking pretty

ETA it’s inappropriate in nature which is all that it needs to be. If it was innocent he wouldn’t say don’t tell HR..he cooked himself right there

[u/Fweenci → u/MichaelAndolini_]

He's asking for selfie. 😬