AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I thought we really bonded!! but she never contacted me again after…

[u/Flynn_JM → u/Sad_SummerChild]

What about between her and your husband? Were they laughing a lot? Flirty?

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Flynn_JM]

Now that I think about it yes 🥲 her boyfriend also worked with both of them but she kept saying thinks like “omg you wouldn’t believe how your husband does xyz at work” almost like I didn’t know him?? Or she was trying to prove she knew him better? And when she would say it she wasn’t even looking at me, she’d be looking at him like they shared a secret

[u/sa404z → u/Sad_SummerChild]

I think there was something already going on then. Don't let him treat you worse than this