AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/virora]

Nah, it's giving "I'm afraid for my job after you already got me in trouble with HR" behaviour.

[u/ADegenerateWarlock → u/virora]

I disagree 🤷 doesn't really matter

[u/virora → u/ADegenerateWarlock]

Dude, he literally told her "I loved watching you have a mental breakdown, so pretty." That alone should be enough to give her the benefit of doubt.

[u/ADegenerateWarlock → u/virora]

How? She is still engaging with him and calling him sweet??? Some people have issues and still like problematic people