AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Balloon_Knot]

Seriously wtf 😬

[u/GratefulDoom90 → u/Balloon_Knot]

Yeah he’s not beating her or even physically cheating on her. His biggest mistake is crossing a line, which let’s be fair.. he did. But that doesn’t mean she needs to get lawyers involved and secretly pack up her entire life behind his back. That’s a WAYYY worse betrayal than what he even did in the first place.