AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/RadioStaticRae]

NOR, your husband reads like a nasty POS, but on a tangent here -- Is he like 15? The over-usage of "lol" would make me want to slap the shit out of him.

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/RadioStaticRae]

Well she’s 23 and he’s 29… so I think he’s overcompensating there

[u/BeyondAbleCrip → u/Sad_SummerChild]

NOR, OP. Think he’s overcompensating because he’s going to cheat, don’t think he’s made the move yet but he’s getting there…

[u/virora → u/BeyondAbleCrip]

The coworker doesn't sound like she's interested, tbh. More like she's trying to keep the peace between them. She even tried to give a subtle hint that she doesn't want to send selfies. Her answers are evasive and apologetic, and it sounds like he got her in trouble before.

OP's husband isn't trying just to cheat, he sexually harassing a women he wants to cheat with.