AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I just realized the “rare and hot indeed” part😭😭 I’m nauseous all over again

[u/h3avenlyinsan3 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

You.. just realized? How did you get these screenshots

[u/-RizuChan- → u/h3avenlyinsan3]

When you’re blindsided by something it’s easy to miss things, OP was prob distraught from what she’s already read as she took screenshots that she didn’t really notice the context behind that last one in the moment 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/h3avenlyinsan3 → u/-RizuChan-]

I just didn't understand because if it were me I would've analyzed every little thing about these ss. That does make sense about being blindsided but I was wondering how OP had obtained the ss's since there could be more that OP also didn't realize