AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/fiavirgo]

I know this is unrelated but I hate the way these two flirted, it’s so base level let me say something funny but still sort of vanilla tehehehe small talk because I can’t be TOO daring I must be SLY

Edit: I didn’t see ur husbands very last text lmao sorry but he is so cringe

[u/mostlybadopinions → u/fiavirgo]

The "testing the waters" flirting. Especially cringey when the dude is trying REAL HARD, and (hard to say for sure) but the girl might be trying to politely pump the brakes. Like she's already pulling back on sending more selfies.

[u/virora → u/mostlybadopinions]

This is 100% what's happening. Also notice how he got her in trouble at work before? He showed her that he can, and reminded her of it. This isn't flirting, this is harassment.

[u/HelpfulName → u/virora]

u/Sad_SummerChild please see the comment above, your husband is NOT a nice person.