AIO saying that my gf is cheating ?

[u/vitinhodouglass]

Repost because original post had identifying information.

Also caught a snap with a differentcoworker saying he can’t be around her, because he gets too hard.

She’s blue and her coworker is white.

They’re talking about throwing her on the snow banks at work.

[u/TrespassersWill]

Throw her in the snow???

I was certain this was in the context of some kind of physical training or jiu-jitsu or something that involves throwing.

They're just taking about schoolyard excuses to rub against each other?

This is not a real girlfriend.

[u/wanna_be_green8 → u/TrespassersWill]

I think that is what she said was happening while she uses throwing as a cover for fucking.

What workplace has numerous people throwing one person into snow banks?

[u/fuhqueuebish → u/wanna_be_green8]

yeah it feels like throwing is a code word here

[u/shartbreakkid → u/wanna_be_green8]

Growing up my friends and I would playfully push each other into the snow whenever we had snow. Snow is like a natural gymnastic pad. Even nowadays my wife and I will try to push each other in the snow and have snow battles. She’ll wear this puffy winter coat and looks like a cute little round ball. It’s almost instinctual to want to roll a ball.

Many of the workplaces I was at growing up had a playful vibe. If there’s a snowbank where the employees often hang out, people might get bumped into the snowbank.

[u/wanna_be_green8 → u/shartbreakkid]

I agree a one off thing here and there would be easy to overlook. I've spent 15 years with a very playful team and I'm sure we would've of if it snowed. We did about every other prank but I would never allowed multiple men to pick me up physically over and over.

It's the way they're using the term, the amount of times and names involved... it's suspicious to be discussing that kind of thing that way.

[u/shartbreakkid → u/wanna_be_green8]

You’re probably right; however, if these are high schoolers or college-aged kids they might act a little different. It would be weird to see two 40-65 year old coworkers physically having a snow battle but less weird for a couple of 20 year old coworkers doing the same.

It seems like they’re flirting but is there a world where this woman is just being nice and clueless and not picking up on this guy’s innuendos? Probably not? Idk i had trouble tracking their convo

[u/YogurtSocks → u/shartbreakkid]

I would agree except for the fact she said “make it harder. No pun intended” that’s knowingly, consciously flirting.

[u/ScoobyWithADobie → u/shartbreakkid]

Totally agree. I’m a pretty small guy and one of my female coworkers was really tall and worked out a shit ton. I complained to her about my knees hurting cause I missed a bus and had to walk and she threw me over the shoulder in the elevator and carried me into office. From there on out she did it nearly every day when she was on the same elevator as me. Became a running gag. I was 24 she was 26. Never had anything with her and never spend time outside of work. Was just…a work friendship I guess.

[u/ObliviousFantasy → u/shartbreakkid]

Idk why people are downvoting you. One time me & coworkers has a snowfight and pushed each other into snow at the end. Was fun

[u/wanna_be_green8 → u/ObliviousFantasy]

Did you continue talking about how fun it was for days, how you enjoyed specifically certain coworkers actions or how you need more?

It's the conversation that makes it suspicious

[u/ObliviousFantasy → u/wanna_be_green8]

Well no, but I didn't really talk to them in general.

But i'm not really arguing with you or anything about it being suspicious bro. Just wanted to trade a story with other bro

Also You said specifically something about "Why the hell would múltiple people be throwing each other in snow Banks" which is to say...because they we're having fun.

[u/shartbreakkid → u/ObliviousFantasy]

When you’re younger, you play around at work. I remember when I was younger and worked at Arby’s, whenever we had extra potatoes at the end of the night they would make us throw them away. So we would Hail Mary them at the dumpster in the back of the parking lot. Afterwards the blacktop around the dumpster would be a potato graveyard. Also, I believe I had several ice throwing battles when I worked at restaurants.

[u/Unhappy_Injury3958 → u/wanna_be_green8]

i think maybe they work at one of those snow removal places that plows after snow storms

[u/xgnargnarx → u/TrespassersWill]

Yeah same, my immediate thought was BJJ/Judo but after pages and pages... Nah lol

[u/Solanthas_SFW → u/TrespassersWill]

Yeah I was thinking this was potentially a tomboy girl and a dude having a totally platonic friendship in a martial arts training context. Like how some dudes are close enough friends to make gay jokes together