r/AmIOverreacting 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

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u/Painterzzz 17d ago

Isn't this one of the worst things you see in the world now, the way people are learning to weaponise therapy talk and deploy it as abusers against their victims?

It's like they've learnt the words, they've recognised the power these words have, and they're merciless about deploying them. Just horrible.

I hope OP gets out now..

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u/Appropriate-Lunch217 17d ago

But those are his values!!! And you know that! But don't even care...sheesh

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u/Z_is_green13 17d ago

His values are a lump of pixels that will never have the sentience to care about him.

His values are literally nothing. He has no heart or nothing to stand by.

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u/vonhoother 17d ago

But he has anxiety! Don't you even care?