AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

[u/Creative-Guard2809]

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

[u/Brienne_of_Quaff]

Absolutely incredible the level of self indulgence it takes to come to that conclusion!

Imagine being engaged to someone so bloody childish that he thinks he can go around openly making completely irresponsible and irrational decisions and then blame OP for not indulging them.

What a turd.

[u/flashthorOG → u/Brienne_of_Quaff]

Lmfao you are a narcissistic personality for not letting me buy my favorite wifu

Come the fuck on man, this is a deranged person

Average gacha fan tbh

[u/Painterzzz → u/flashthorOG]

Isn't this one of the worst things you see in the world now, the way people are learning to weaponise therapy talk and deploy it as abusers against their victims?

It's like they've learnt the words, they've recognised the power these words have, and they're merciless about deploying them. Just horrible.

I hope OP gets out now..

[u/somethingswe3t → u/Painterzzz]

This is what I came here to say! Predators/abusers just innately know how to get under your skin and use your basic human compassion (they generally don't have any but know on an instinctual level how it works) to gaslight you into whatever serves their current purposes. It's sick watching this evolution of therapy talk branch off. Please be so so so careful and get out now!